i was never a leaver. when i love, i stay. i fight, i try, i give everything i can. i don't walk away just because things get hard, and i don't disappear when feelings get real. i've always been the type who holds on, not the one who lets someone go. if i stepped back, it wasn't because i wanted to leave. it was because i had no place left to stay. and even then, it wasn't easy. letting go never felt like relief, it felt like losing a part of myself.
Always ignore PROVOKING SPIRITS. They create chaos just to get a reaction out of you and make you be something you’re not until you match their energy. Then they flip the script and turn into the victim.
Toxic people thrive on conflict. They want you defending yourself, explaining yourself, reacting to every little thing they throw at you. That's how they keep control. The power is in learning to disengage completely. Stop feeding their chaos. They can't play the game if you're no longer on the field.
hot take: it’s extremely selfish to enter someones life and see that they’re a loving, good and cheerful person. then decide to ruin their peace cuz you can’t deal with ur own issues.