if you de-transition, that's cool. we're all figuring ourselves out and i wish you the best on your journey.
if you de-transition and then turn into an anti-trans activist, that is deeply self absorbed. "it didn't work for me, so it shouldn't work for anyone" is ridiculous.
I saw it as like the honami running over tsukasa with a car bit I thought everyone (or mostly everyone) treated it as such. I don't think anyone is purposefully and actively wanting to spread misinfo
writer: my character is aroace
fans: aroace people can still date and have sex btw! ^_^
writer: no like theyre romance and sex repulsed
fans: romance and sex repulsed people can still be in QPRs btw! ^_^
writer: theyre not interested in that
fans: oh so you think QPRs arent valid