Once you realize how CONFRONTATIONAL your own presence can be you’ll learn how selective you have to be. Cuz you can just be doing u & it make a mf realize how insecure, worthless, and lame THEY are & now they’re new project is tryna tear u down and humble u everyday.
No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that comes from being with someone who’s emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with your core values.
people get so caught up in the shame of being called out that they make the situation 10x bigger than it ever had to be. life could be so simple if accountability was normalized. you did something i didn’t like. i named it. acknowledge it, apologize and we move on.
Once a man starts talking about peace I just turn my ears off cos they really don’t even know the meaning. Masters of chaos and confusion—almost always inconsistent vibes. Lol
I think my love with being alone stems from me knowing if I'm alone then no one is around to disturb me or alter any of my emotions. Everything is up to me. no one is there to misunderstand me, judge me, etc.
It's peaceful. A peace I don't feel often with other humans
So y’all don’t be seeing the conversations about the power grid going out soon, us running out of clean water, the fruits losing their seeds so we can’t regrow them, the robots advancing fast asf, meat being made in factories and getting shipped from Argentina (beef) with a known chemical on it etc…. Like when are we gone talk about all of that instead of everything that don’t matter?
Men are hyper sexual demons! That’s why y’all can’t fathom the thought that women can go without. It’s hard for y’all to believe that everyone is not as lustful and compulsive as y’all are.
I just want to experience a season of life where I'm not always recovering from something. It feels like there's always an ugly truth I'm having to confront, a belief I'm having to unlearn, more work to be done. It's exhausting and lonely. And yeah, I get that life isn't fair and that you have to just keep going. But i keep being resilient when what I'd really like is relief.
You don't see the lies at the beginning because they come dressed as love. You give your heart to a person, only to realize at the end that there was no person.
Just a mask. Just an illusion. Just a fraud.
i don’t know who needs to hear this, but it’s okay to still be fucking angry that the man who was supposed to love you forever ended up completely deceiving you and nearly destroyed your soul. you’re allowed to be angry forever about this.