I’ve spent years trying to become consistently profitable at trading.
The biggest lesson? It wasn’t about finding the perfect strategy. It was learning to consistently trade the one I already had.
I’m writing about the whole crazy journey.
Trading SOS: From Clueless to Consistent
When learning to trade, working on a couple of development areas a week doesn’t sound much.
But that’s more than 100 improvements over the course of a year.
Don’t underestimate the power of slowly chipping away.
And that’s why I believe becoming a consistently good trader takes years.
Finding a strategy isn’t necessarily the hard part. You can find hundreds of them online.
The hard part is developing the discipline, patience and mental resilience to actually trade one properly.
You can learn a strategy in weeks.
Learning to become the trader who can execute it consistently takes much longer.
For years, I was scared of losing. I saw every losing trade as a failure.
What I eventually realised is that losing is simply part of trading. Pro traders lose regularly.
The difference is how they handle those losses. They accept them, keep them under control and move on without letting one loss turn into something much bigger.
I’m no longer afraid of losing.
I’ve just learned how to lose properly.
I started trading for the freedom it could give me.
What I never expected was to genuinely fall in love with the art of trading itself.
I love looking at charts. The patterns, the symmetry, the constant puzzle of trying to understand what price is doing.
Somewhere along the way, it stopped being just about the money and became a skill I genuinely wanted to master.
I fell in love with the process.
I’ve been thinking a lot about why traders struggle to follow their rules.
FOMO is obviously a big part of it.
But I think there’s something else. Setups in a live market rarely look as clean as they do in textbooks or backtesting.
So you start interpreting things. You convince yourself a condition is “close enough”, or you start seeing things that aren’t really there because you want the trade.
Before you know it, the rules you thought were black and white have become very grey.
It sounds simple, doesn’t it, Yumi?
I think the problem is that beginner traders see experienced traders using discretion and think they can do the same.
A trade doesn’t quite meet all their conditions, so they tell themselves, “I’ll use a bit of discretion here.”
That’s when everything starts to get blurry.
Particularly when you’re learning, I think you need to be incredibly strict with your conditions. You can earn the right to use discretion later.
I found the same thing.
When you’re starting out, you want to feel productive. And trading feels productive when you’re actually putting trades on.
As you get more experienced, you realise that being productive often means doing absolutely nothing.
Sitting on your hands and waiting for your setup is a trading decision in itself.
Sometimes the best trade you make all day is the one you don’t take.
I found that having strict trading session times really helped me with this.
Before that, I could spend all day watching the charts and convincing myself that every random move was an opportunity.
Having set times when I’m allowed to trade gives me boundaries, keeps me focused, and stops me looking for trades that probably aren’t there.
Sometimes trading less really does mean trading better.
My journal software records every trade automatically, and I don't always write an accompanying note with every trade.
But if I learn something new from a trade, I’ll ALWAYS make a note of it.
Then, at the end of each week, I review those notes and set myself action points for the week ahead.
For me, that’s the real value of journaling. It’s not just about recording what happened. It’s about making sure I don’t keep making the same mistakes.
Have you ever noticed that just when you start getting a bit cocky with your trading — thinking you’ve finally cracked it — the market has a habit of ripping you a new one?
It’s almost like someone’s looking down thinking, “Steady on, mate. You’re not there yet.”
Trading has a wonderful way of keeping your ego in check.😄
So true. A hell of a lot of damage can be done on Fridays.
My journaling showed that my Friday afternoon performance was terrible, so I introduced a simple rule: I don’t trade Friday afternoons anymore.
It’s been one of the best decisions I’ve made. Not only is my equity curve healthier, but I get some invaluable time away from the screens.
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your trading is go and see the world outside your trading screen.
When I started trading, I thought I was being clever trying to monitor 26 FX pairs while juggling different strategies.
Looking back now, I realise how ridiculous that was.
These days, I trade mainly one market: ES.
And simplifying things has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
There’s a lot to be said for knowing one market inside out.
That was something I really had to work on.
My journaling kept showing me the same thing: I was doing a lot of damage on Friday afternoons, particularly when liquidity started to dry up.
So I made a simple rule. I don’t trade Friday afternoons anymore.
It’s been one of the best changes I’ve made. My P&L is better, but there’s another benefit I hadn’t really considered.
I get Friday afternoons back.
The charts go off, trading is done for the week, and my brain gets a well-earned break.
That’s what I love about trading. It’s you versus you. Unlike most jobs, there’s nobody else to rely on — but there’s also nobody else to let you down. Once you become consistent, you have the potential to be completely independent. No boss. No employees. No clients. No relying on someone else to do their job properly. Just you, your rules and the market.
@VClouette That this is going to be a long old journey.
You’ll go through hell and back. You’ll be tested mentally in ways you never expected, and there’ll be plenty of times when you wonder whether it’s all worth it.
But boy, is it worth it if you stick it out.
Very true. I wish I’d chilled out a bit at the start and taken the pressure off myself.
I genuinely thought I’d be a multimillionaire within six months. 😂
Instead, I spent the next few years wondering why it was taking so long.
I’m incredibly pleased with the progress I’ve made. I just wish I’d understood from day one that trading isn’t a get-rich-quick scheme.
It’s a proper career. And proper careers take time to learn.
@samuraipips358 I agree, Yumi. You've got to trust the process, and also realise that when you're learning, your progress doesn't always show up in your P&L.