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This will shock you.
But I will share the story nonetheless.
I once read an article few years ago that when the TV healings became ubiquitous on Nigerian television and many innocent people were falling prey to religious fraudsters, the Nigerian television authority NTA mandated a strict rule that before any ‘supernatural healing’ is broadcasted, there must be an objective, hospital-verified evidence of the illness and cure before and after the purported healing. You had to show hospital evidence that the person was sick before prayers and hospital evidence that the person had been cured after prayers before it can be broadcasted on the NTA. This was to rule out actors, impostors and fraudsters from deceiving people.
Suddenly almost no church/pastor could meet the NTA requirement and they simply started showing their “healings” on their privatised channels where they completely control what they show and nobody verifies what they claim.
It was saddening but interesting at the same time.
I met a first daughter who told me she loves men who don’t just accept anything, men who don’t get bossed around, men who lead and she follows. Whats funny is, this babe loves to boss people around and when you don’t do what she says, her mood changes.
Made me understand something about first daughters, if you don’t lead, she will lead, and her leading makes you less attractive to her
my sister taught me that when you buy a new bra you should make sure it fits while fastened on the LOOSEST hook so that when the band loses elasticity over time you can tighten the hook and the bra will last longer
My most vulnerable video yet 💔 We experienced a chemical pregnancy and even though it is early, that does not make it any less real. A chemical pregnancy happens around 4 weeks when the hormones rise but the pregnancy does not fully implant. It ends quickly, but the emotions stay.
Some days I catch myself imagining what my life would look like right now with my baby in my arms. Other days I remind myself that I asked God for a healthy, strong body and a healthy, happy baby. I know I wasn’t at my healthiest so all I can do is have faith & trust.
Going through this opened my eyes in a way I was not prepared for. So many women suffer silently through miscarriages at every stage. One in four. The heartbreak, the fear, the fertility struggles, the wondering if your body is failing you, the dips in confidence, the pressure from family… it is a lot. It is too much for any woman to carry alone.
Sharing this episode honestly scared me. I feel exposed. I feel tender. But I also feel stronger knowing another woman might watch this and feel less alone.
I am holding faith, hope, and softness for myself, and for anyone else walking this journey too. 🤍
I’ll always say this, not everyone is wired to run a business or be an entrepreneur. Some people just need a solid 9-5 to get their feet planted and keep their life from going off the rails, and that is perfectly fine.
Systems in Entrepreneurship in the creative fields globally have varying degrees of development. The more educated you enter the space the better it is for you. Even if you do not enter trad further education, find ways to educate yourself. Or you will get robbed, creatively lol