there are blurry and faded lines between chivalry and feminism that are only made clear in individual circumstances. i would be extremely uncomfy if someone offered me their seat unless i was visibly in pain or something.
a girl on tik tok just said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
why does work have to take so much out of me 😭 mental illness is enough of a challenge on its own, let alone adding more hrs. i was struggling to make it before. had to switch up projects yesterday to low-priority work, just to get around the mind blocks and get a full day in.
it's really difficult to do any task for more than 6 hrs a day. like my brain cannot do it. no focus. mental health is a hard thing to navigate in the way that it affects productivity.
@highxdreams Wait so if that takes a year... how are people gonna remember a bar fight a year later when half of em might not remember it the next day 😂
@xemilysmile I've heard colleges lose money on classes, break even with food, and make money on dorms. So I can see why it's not that way... but I definitely agree with you.
Don't matter what I do, it's not enough. Not good enough, not smart enough, not calm enough, not caring enough, not strong enough...not enough communication or people skills, not enough energy to do everything I need to do. FUCK. THIS.
Lately I'm pissing people off and nobody will tell me how the fuck to improve. Am I really this toxic? I JUST WANT TO DO BETTER. Why do they get mad when I ask questions.