Reproduction is the real meaning of life from nature’s view.
The only part of us that continues after we die is our DNA.
Our children and grandchildren carry the only physical leftover of ourselves, our genetic code.
That is why having offspring so important.
Many people still want the romantic 20th-century idea of marriage,
One man, one woman, exclusive, forever, like their grandparents had.
But the 21st-century sexual marketplace is different.
People keep their options open.
Bro,
Always be happy to be corrected.
If you show me I am wrong in any thought or action, I will gladly change.
Truth never hurts. Only staying wrong does.
If someone wiser corrects you, change your mind, but only for the sake of justice or the common good.
Bro,
Don’t stop people from trying.
It is cruel to block someone from what they believe is good for them.
If they are wrong, teach them gently instead of complaining.
Bro,
Always do every task calmly.
Treat every work in life the same way.
Finish one small step at a time without getting upset.
Other people or things don’t need to distract you, they are either lifeless, irrational or lost.
Bro,
ASKING FOR HELP
Don’t be ashamed to ask for help.
Ask yourself:
“Can my mind handle this job?”
If the answer is YES, do it. Nature gave you the tools.
If the answer is NO, hand it to someone better, or do your best with help.
Put the bully in his place.
Just say, "I respect your opinion".
A rude person is always at a loss when rudeness is responded to with courtesy.
Tell your interlocutor that his opinion is important to you, that you respect him.
This is something the aggressor obviously won't expect!
Your response will let the offender know that you are ready to further your communication, but only in polite tones!
A negatively minded person is unlikely to turn the dialogue in an intelligent way, so he will just leave you alone.
What is Masculinity?
Masculinity is the way of the primal survival gang.
It has nothing to do with being a “nice guy,” following a religion, picking a political side or obeying modern social rules.
At its core, masculinity is about what men need from other men to survive and win in a dangerous world.
Men are built for the gang. Masculinity does not exist in isolation, it emerges inside small groups of men (a “gang").
In these groups, men judge each other first and foremost. Women naturally follow the men who earn respect from that gang.
It is how human beings have organized for survival since the beginning.
Picture a small tribe fighting for its life.
The men form a protective circle, called the perimeter, around the women and children.
Their single job is to guard the thin line between safety and danger.
Inside that circle is everything worth protecting. Outside it is chaos.
To thrive in the gang, only four things matter.
These are the tactical virtues, the practical skills that decide whether a man is good at being a man.
1. Strength.
Raw physical power and toughness. Men are stronger on average, and this is the most obvious male trait.
Without it, you cannot protect or provide when a crisis hits.
2. Courage.
The willingness to take risks and face danger for the sake of the gang. It is not recklessness, it is standing up exactly when it counts.
3. Mastery
Real skill and competence at something useful like fighting, building, leading, hunting, or any task the group needs done.
Men prove their worth by showing they can get the job finished.
4. Honor
Your reputation among the other men. It means loyalty, keeping your word, and earning respect. Lose your honor and the gang rejects you.
These four virtues: strength, courage, mastery, and honor are primal, tactical and amoral. They are about survival, not about being liked.
They are what make a man “good at being a man.”
This is very different from what society today calls “a good man.”
A good man is expected to be nice, kind, obedient, and politically correct.
These are two different things.
Modern culture rewards the second version and punishes the first.
That is why so much of modern life feels wrong for men.
Civilization was built by strong gangs. Rome itself began as a band of outcasts and thugs.
But once societies grow comfortable, they slowly forgets their roots.
Civilized life begins to “check” the primal male virtues because those virtues threaten order.
Men are told their natural instincts are dangerous or bad.
We now live in what can be called the Bonobo Masturbation Society. Safe, soft and pleasure-focused.
Men are kept pacified with endless porn, video games, comfort and entertainment.
There is no real purpose, no real risk, and no real struggle.
It feels empty because it is empty.
What is best in life for men is simple: struggle, risk, and challenge.
Comfort without purpose makes men weak and unhappy. The male spirit needs to be tested to feel alive.
Civilization is breaking down. Waiting for society to fix itself is pointless.
The answer is to start the world again, one small group at a time.
Men should stop trying to become the “good man” that modern society demands.
Instead, they need to become good at being a man again.
That begins by forming small, local gangs, tight groups of like-minded men built on real bonds, real skills and real purpose.
These modern masculine tribes are how we rebuild what has been lost.
Masculinity is the primal way of the survival gang, defined by strength, courage, mastery, and honor.
Modern civilization has tamed and shamed these virtues, leaving men lost and frustrated.
The solution is clear: stop chasing approval and start building the gang.
The world is waiting for men who remember who they are.
Bro,
In other words,
RED PILL is SCIENCE, Not a SERMON.
The red pill is the science of human action, the study of human conduct.
When it comes to intersexual dynamics, the red pill is and will always be a study.
Ideally, it is not about moral judgments, right vs. wrong or ideology.
It is simply about understanding how men and women actually behave.
This idea is hard to sell in the age of 45-second TikTok videos.
Sex sells and relationship advice sells even better.
But to truly understand the red pill, you need to study several related fields.
Most people only see the loud opinions on social media.
There are two sides to the red pill:
Theory and Game.
Theory is understanding how intersexual dynamics work.
Game is the practice, the actual social skills with women.
Both are incomplete without the other.
Just reminder,
For men here who are still shriving in their SINGULARITY and SOLITUDE.
Always observe the iron rule of Tomassi
Iron Rule: NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
What “Birth Control?”
Birth control is called that because someone decides if a baby happens or not.
Women have 41 different birth control choices.
Men have only 2
A vasectomy or a condom.
A condom is a man’s only protection against a woman’s choice.
Therefore, the most important rule for men:
Never let a woman be in charge of whether you become a father.
Always use your own protection.
Don't let a $20 sundress turn into a long term investment.
DO NOT DO IT.
The relationship she asked for from you, is killing what she felt for you.
She asks for more of your time. You give it to her.
She asks you to check in more often, to be around more, to stop making plans without her. You do that, too.
She asks for commitment, for security, for the kind of closeness that means she knows exactly where you are and exactly where you stand.
You give her all of it, because you love her, and because you have been told your entire life that a good man gives a woman what she asks for.
And then, somewhere between six months and six years later, she is cold.
She is distant. She initiates nothing.
Sex is scheduled at best, nonexistent at worst. You ask what is wrong.
She says she doesn’t know. Or she says she loves you but isn’t in love with you anymore.
Or she says nothing at all, and you just feel the temperature dropping, one degree at a time, until you are sleeping in the same bed as a stranger.
You did everything she asked.
And you lost her anyway.
What most men never figure out and what I want to lay out for you clearly is that this isn’t a coincidence.
The thing that killed her desire for you was precisely what she asked you to give her.
You gave her the THREE KILLERS of attraction.
1. Closeness
2. Familiarity
3. Exclusivity
These THREE FORCES don’t weaken attraction over time.
They structurally eliminate it, the same way oxygen feeds a fire and then, when there’s too much of it in a closed room, puts the fire out.
SOLITUDE is THERAPEUTIC.
Fasting from food restores balance to the body.
Fasting from social media restores balance to the mind.
Fasting from people restores balance to the spirit.
Self-mastery requires self-reflection and self-reflection requires solitude.
You're always conflicted because you never spend time alone with your mind in sober silence.
Over-socialisation and over-stimulation will rob you of an intimate connection with your soul.
Soon enough, you will unconsciously start thinking and behaving like everyone else.
#MasculinityStaurday
Still on SOLITUDE,
MONK MODE is far easier to imbibe good habits, routines and virtues when you are alone.
Eliminate or cut back on junk activities that sound fun but add nothing to your personal mission.
- Clubbing
- Video gaming
- Watching porn
- Hard drinking
- Binge-watching every new show
They may seem harmless, but you are paying a great opportunity cost on your future.
Letting go of these junk activities is a small price to pay for the clarity, confidence and competence that you will gain.
All of which will make you a more valuable person.
Before you go monk mode:
Clearly outline your spiritual, fitness and financial goals.
Specify a timeframe for intense focus.
Remove distractions:
- Delete your Netflix account
- Block all porn sites
-Lay low on social media
- Don't be available to everyone.
While in monk mode:
- Set clear boundaries for yourself and others.
- Establish a routine that allows for maximum productivity.
- Set specific times for breaks, exercise, self-care, and organized chaos.
- Create systems that keep you consistent.
- Review your progress daily.
Monk mode is a full-time commitment.
Better not to begin than to half-arse it.
So choose a timeframe you can stick to.
The more dedicated you are, the faster you will progress.
Delete the useless socials.
Forget the cheap dopamine.
Ignore the propaganda.
SOLITUDE is THERAPEUTIC.
Fasting from food restores balance to the body.
Fasting from social media restores balance to the mind.
Fasting from people restores balance to the spirit.
Self-mastery requires self-reflection and self-reflection requires solitude.
You're always conflicted because you never spend time alone with your mind in sober silence.
Over-socialisation and over-stimulation will rob you of an intimate connection with your soul.
Soon enough, you will unconsciously start thinking and behaving like everyone else.
Solitude strips away the distractions and noise of the external world, allowing you to focus on the present moment and tap into your inner wisdom.
It is a safe space where you can escape the pressures and demands of society and reconnect with your authentic self.
Solitude is not just a personal retreat, it is also a catalyst for creative thinking and problem-solving.
When you remove yourself from the constant stimulation of the modern world, you open yourself up to new perspectives, ideas and creativity.
Self-love is characterised by the ability to be alone without ever feeling bored or lonely.
Embrace aloneness.
Allow yourself to connect with your innermost thoughts and feelings, and see where they lead you.
Meditate and journal. You will be surprised by the insights you receive.
But don't mistake isolation for solitude.
Although both involve being alone, the intention and experience they offer are worlds apart.
Isolation is a form of self-harm.
Solitude is a form of self-love.
Isolation is a forced disassociation from others due to negative identities and emotions like shame, insecurity or non-belongingness.
It can cause loneliness, depression and suicidal ideations.
Solitude, on the other hand, is a conscious state of being alone that is chosen for the purpose of reflection, contemplation, or personal growth.
It is a nourishing and rejuvenating experience, allowing you to recharge and connect with your inner self.
It is a small, tight gang.
It is built on shared values, shared risk and earned trust.
A community of stronger men who lead, others follow and grow.
Honesty is direct, no soft language, no walking on eggshells.
It's forged in adversity: hard situations where things can actually go wrong.
Everyone knows where they stand.
That clarity isn't cruelty. It's respect.
Bro,
GREEN FLAG 2: EMOTIONAL MATURITY
EMOTIONAL MATURITY means she accepts personal responsibility, copes with challenges well, and positively.
An emotionally mature woman can calm herself when she is angry or sad, and doesn’t blame you for her emotional states.
She also accepts that life can be unfair, and doesn’t go through destructive patterns of idealization and vilification.
She is resilient. She understands herself, and works on her own limitations. She keeps her commitments.
She doesn’t base important decisions on her impulses or feelings, but on her values instead.
She understands and enjoys taking care of herself physically, and she has an emotional and positive mental regime that allows her to see the cup as half-full, rather than half-empty.
She also functions well with co-workers, family, and friends.
Bro,
GREEN FLAGS you should look for in a woman for Long-Term Relationship.
GREEN FLAG 1: CLARITY
CLARITY means that she won’t waste time quarreling or fighting about who is right, but you talk like adults and go to the source of the issue.
She can express herself constructively, avoiding tantrums, hissy fits, aggression, and passive aggressiveness.
She is also inquisitive and has the curiosity and drive to understand what is going on, sets aside the need to be right, and focuses on solutions rather than blame.
She must also be able to assert her desires, openly without manipulation, gaslighting, or the use of underhanded tactics
and without being bossy and overly assertive.
This commercialization of motherhood and it puts a lot of newborns and mothers into a disadvantage.
Why not encourage and educate mothers that motherhood is a natural, evolutionary, biological role which must be observed religiously.
Why push for unjustified Caesarean Section?