The Polygynist

Polygynist.

[Ozedikus Nwanne @Ozedikus]

Men think of money in terms of how hard it is to make
Women think of money in terms of how easy it is to spend

[Ambar @Ambar_SIFF_MRA]

Most epic rejection ever

[X @Xouy17]

You can't disrespect me and then put limitations on how I disrespect you back.

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

A man who spends all day solving problems, doesn't want to date one.

[The Polygynist @The_Polygynist]

@hy_wemmy @GanderDanielle Maybe but it could also be an erroneous conclusion.

Bare minimum is very relative.

Some guys expect nothing on their birthday but may buy followers on yours. Meanwhile, some girls think flowers are bare minimum for a birthday.

There is no shortcut, unfortunately.

[Sentimental Foodie @SentimentalCook]

She was Alice Regina Mulenga Lubusha, but Bembas pronounced Regina as "Lenshina". In 1953, Lenshina went to see Rev. Fergus Macpherson who was a Church of Scotland missionary stationed at Lubwa.

She told Rev. Macpherson that she had risen from the dead, not once..but four times. At her last rising, she said, she met Jesus at a river and Jesus told "his people" to send her back because her time hadn't come yet.

Jesus then commanded Lenshina to start a church for "Africans". Unfortunately, many villagers fell for this and this was the beginning of Lenshina's cult. Lumpa cult members were given "passports to heaven" and told that if they died for Lenshina's cause, they would go straight to heaven.

Lumpa cult members wiped out entire villages. In Lundazi, when they arrived at the Boma, they slaughtered all the Indian shop owners and then killed everyone at a village called Mbambo. The mass grave is still there today.

My mother, who is still alive today was a teenager when their village was attacked. She described what she saw as they were running away. Ahead of the Lumpa attackers was a woman completely naked shouting "Jerico, Jerico, Jerico". The few men who tried to defend the village were overwhelmed by the mass of the attackers. No one was spared, babies hacked into pieces.

It really upsets me when I see some sections of our society painting Lenshina as some sort of victim. She was a leader of a murderous cult.

[Muna Given Mudenda #veep @MunaMudenda]

#letstalkfarming

I will be running a series of discussions on farming in Zambia at both Smallscale and large scale farming to share my experiences and knowledge with farmers and wannabe farmers on this app.

Stay tuned.

#veep

[Dimitri @thedimitri]

We used to understand some women were meant to be courtesans, prostitutes, or whores and now these same women expect to become wives

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

Want to know if a woman is worth your time, ask her for money. A small amount of money or to buy you a little something. Women are stingy with their money, if she agrees to give you, she really likes you.

[Felix @FMwenge]

An empty stomach is not a good political adviser.
— Albert Einstein

#nodignityinpoverty

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

Effort has to be reciprocated

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

The biggest reality check is that life goes on.

[Biff @biffredeemed]

The ROI on keeping your mouth shut is extremely high

[The Polygynist @The_Polygynist]

@TaongaZM @mutachali @DuncanSodala @tonytheegoon @Slim_Thanos They look amazing. Congratulations and good luck

[Taonga Zm @TaongaZM]

Just finished building my apartments in North Western Province..

if your ever in Kalumbila area please visit Zango Apartments..

#zango #GodisGood

@DuncanSodala @tonytheegoon @Slim_Thanos

[The Polygynist @The_Polygynist]

@lumbiwe99 This is a potentially dangerous take. Making sure is always a good idea for everyone involved.

Despite how they look.

It harms nobody and helps everybody.

[Rivelino @alpharivelino]

The girl who pursues you aggressively at the beginning is the girl who will punish you aggressively at the end

[Lepokisi @Bhokisi_]

You wear someone else’s hair for a full month

[The Polygynist @The_Polygynist]

@SipWithSips @Pearl_ChuChu 🤣🤣 you’re funny

[AvantPrince_ @AvantPrince_]

The only men who get demoralised when a woman leaves them are men who do not have deep faith in their own journey and potential.

In that moment this woman is making a clear bet against your trajectory, your intellect, your drive and your spirit.

She is openly admitting she believes you will do nothing with your life. She is denouncing all things you could become and she would rather go and find a new man to please her as she has completely devalued you in her own psyche and mulled over your negatives to such a degree you repel and repulse her.

And you're sad? That is your response to her communicating toward you in the manner I outlined?

The only way you can overcome this is to utilise the piece of wisdom that the past is overwritten by the future, something that happens in the future will completely change what a certain event means to you both emotionally and psychologically

You must go and transcend your own prior limitations, you must go and attack the world, you must configure new ideologies and construct better plans to take forward into the world to overcome yourself and your shortcomings that made her embarrassed to be your woman, to such a degree she had to leave you.

You must far surpass any mental pictures or paradigms she had of you deep in her mental chambers. Only then will you know.

Only then will you know, you were right and she was wrong.

You must supersede yourself to give birth to new possibilities and confidence.

In superseding yourself you will have overwritten the past, your will to power can bludgeon the trauma you once felt, you alchemised and turned a wound into a womb that gave birth to something beautiful