As a Man, don't marry whom you love.
Don't marry for love.
Marry who appreciates you deeply and looks at you the way no one else ever does, someone who compliments your vision.
Then grow in Love on the long run.
If you marry her for her fine face, that looks will change on the long run; if you marry her for her sexy tiny waist, Child birth will change all that. If you marry her for her back side even after all the red flags, your eye go blurr on the long run.
Wishing you a blessed home or in the future when you finally decide to settle down.