Made some cool money today tho, would have been nice to have someone with sense to take out dinner to celebrate but lame asses everywhere.
Need to change my environment
Two days ago, I was with an older women who was on her knees.
I was smoking Russian cream nodding my head to Baba Barrister and Kwam 1 while she sipped the Casamigo I brought from the party the night while sucking.
At that point I knew : As a MAN, I'm the price, fuck ya all!
TRUE LIFE STORY
Back then during lockdown, they told everyone to stock their house with food, buy gloves etc.
One of my guys did all that. He had a female colleague who said she would come around to help cook the food for him etc
She never left.
Today they have 2 young toddlers.. ๐
Go to ASPAMDA Market or Ladipo Auto Spare Parts Market in Lagos, most of those businesses are running on bank loans. But they hide it.
As a Bank Relationship Manager try talking to them about a loan when their boys, friends, or other traders are in the shop. You will not get their attention. They will shut it down quickly.
But when you go back when they are alone, they will listen to you. Some will even tell you what they really need.
It is not that they donโt use loans. They do.
They just donโt want people to know for bragging right. Most of them belong to clubs, village town hall meeting and other associations so they want to protect their ego.
There is this mindset that once people hear you took a loan, it reduces your respect. Like you are not strong enough to run your business on your own or you're struggling. So they hide it.
That's the bad stereotype we place on loans and it is not good, people need to be educated on how to leverage loans to build their business.
There should be no shame in using loan to run your business. Loan is a tool and If you use it well, it helps you buy more, sell more, and grow faster.
There is nothing to hide.
In fact, if you can take a loan, use it well, and pay back, it says a lot about your business growth and personality.
I have two girls I give jobs , however one has been doing big girl and taking long to respond to text, basically the Nigerian mindset of "it took time for him to respond to me me to I would take time "
Well, I dey load the fast responder with jobs , not my loss.