He doesn’t want a relationship with you. Not really. He’s not interested in the kind of love that takes effort, trust, and vulnerability. He just wants you close enough to keep you in his orbit when he needs validation, attention, or a distraction. You’re his comfort zone, his safety net. He keeps you around because you make him feel good about himself, but never enough to actually commit.
He likes the idea of you... the version of you that’s always there when he’s feeling lonely or bored. But when it comes to putting in the work, showing up, and offering you the same care and respect, he ghosts. He pulls away. He leaves you hanging. And you’re left questioning what went wrong, wondering why he can't seem to make up his mind. But the truth is, he’s made his choice. He just hasn’t told you the full story.
He keeps you just close enough to keep you in his pocket, so he can call on you whenever he needs to feel special. But when it comes to making you feel special, to letting you know you matter more than a momentary need, he disappears. Why? Because as long as he knows you’ll stick around in the background, he doesn’t have to fully commit to anything real.
Meanwhile, he’s out there talking to other women, entertaining other options, testing the waters. You’re nothing more than a backup plan in his mind... a warm body for when the others aren’t available. But he’ll never say it. Instead, he’ll keep you in this loop of confusion, making you think maybe he’ll change, maybe he’ll realize what he has in you. But he won’t. Not unless you finally wake up and realize you deserve more than scraps from someone who’s never going to see you as the priority.
So stop waiting for a text that won’t come. Stop overthinking the “maybe’s” and “one day’s” he feeds you. Stop pretending that his actions match his words. Because his actions are loud and clear: he wants you around when it’s convenient for him, but he’s not interested in investing in you the way you deserve.
You deserve more than someone who only wants you when it benefits them. You deserve someone who values you enough to put in the effort and commitment to build something real. If he can’t give you that, let him go... and stop being his emotional filler.
Relationships where there’s no communication everyday is a recipe for disaster. You don’t know what your partner is up to. Whether they are having a good or bad day. You don’t keep eachother up to date on day to day activities or new developments. You’re only dating yourself.
I’m sending you a lot of hugs if you’re suffering from heartbreak.
It could have been worse. Don’t beat yourself anymore. You merit someone better.
Sometimes, you need to dispose of an item to get something better. It’s your time to shine 🫶
Please don’t waste your tears over someone who doesn’t deserve it. You will only experience tears of joy, and not sorrow over someone who deceived you or broke your heart.
Accept the healing, forgive yourself, move on with your life, and let the person go.
I wish you love and light 💡🫂
THE POWER OF SILENCE IN ANGER 🔥💀
When you are upset, be quiet and don’t say a word. Anger has a way of borrowing your mouth and turning temporary emotions into permanent damage. Words spoken in rage do not disappear once the mood changes.
They linger in the mind of the person who heard them. You can apologize, but you can never erase the moment those words landed. It is even more dangerous when the same tongue that once said “I love you” now delivers cruelty. Love and venom should never come from the same place.
Silence in anger is not weakness but it is discipline. It is choosing restraint over regret. When emotions cool, wisdom speaks better. Protect your relationships by pausing. Sometimes the most powerful response is saying nothing at all.
Be guided accordingly. 👏