i've always treated my people with kindness and when they show me why i shouldn't, i don't seek revenge or turn bitter but i simply walk away. that doesn't mean i'm naive; it's just who i am. the real ones will know how to stick around and for those who don't, i'll let them go :)
There's a kind of discipline and maturity in knowing how to keep good news private until you're ready to share it, handle bad news without telling the entire world and work through personal problems without making everyone a participant. Not everything needs an audience.