Q1. I broke up with my babymomma a year ago, but we remain friends. She has an at-home daycare, and my new girl brought our baby to her. (I trust my BM and I want our kids to know each other. #GrownManMoves). Well, my new girl reported that my BM has a new man living there, and that she looks pregnant. That's UNACCEPTABLE. I've reported her to child services, etc., because I don't want another man--that I don't know--around my kids or in their lives. I tried to get her daycare shut down but the state agency said the man had a clean record and there was no violation, but also the man is her HUSBAND. I confronted her about getting married--what if I wanted to come back? And my new girl is telling ME that she's ready to marry too. I need help shutting her daycare down, and at least causing drama in their marriage because I do love her and I might want to come back. I need a plan. Help. #SBCCHAT
Q1. I’m active in my son‘s life and I taught him to find a woman that appreciates him; get a soft, educated woman that knows how to treat a Black man. I taught him to find a woman opposite of his mother and that’s what I’m doing. Things were going well in my personal relationship until I got in an altercation with my new wife and she accidentally sh0t me. I recovered, we reunited, except now I have to wear a leg bag (for urine) due to that incident. My babymomma has been telling our son, “see what dissing Black women gets you. Look at your dad pissing in a bag; he can’t even go to the bathroom like a man.” I think that’s disrespectful. One thing has nothing to do with the other, and I’m looking for a way to properly correct my son but it’s hard to do that when I’m injured. What to do? Advice. #SBCCHAT
My dad retired at 59
I will not
He had a pension. I have a 401k I can barely fund.
He bought his house at 28.
I can't touch a down payment at 30.
He paid $90 a month for health insurance. I pay $430.
At dinner he told me I need to be smarter with money.
I nodded.
Didn't tell him his entire life was built on an economy that no longer exists.
Didn't tell him my generation is paying for his Social Security while ours gets gutted.
Didn't tell him the ladder he climbed got pulled up right after him.
Just passed the potatoes.
Make it make sense
Q1. Danny was a pool boy in Jamaica when I brought him home with me. I've bought Danny everything he asked for. A bike, games, clothes—I even took him to Vegas with me. He lets me please him, (I wear dentures, so he loves what I do when I remove my smile) but he doesn't want sex from me. He believes that all white women are rich, I am not. Furthermore, I'm not financially stable enough to continue spoiling him. I expected sex by now, but he keeps teasing. What do Jamaican men want? How do I close the deal with him? I'm always hot and bothered and he doesn't do what he's supposed to. Advice. #SBCCHAT
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Q5. My eye sight was hazy and I told my boyfriend to bring my car back and take me to Urgent Care. I called him, he promised he was on his way back. I felt worse. Head was throbbing, my face felt like it was dragging...and I couldn't see out of my left eye. I called him again and the phone went straight to voicemail. I called my brother and he rushed me to the hospital. I had a mini stroke. The next afternoon, on my way home, I asked my brother to swing by my boyfriend's house. Sure enough, my car was there. His wife's car was there as well. He knew I was having a medical emergency and he wouldn't leave his wife's side to help me. My brother had his friend use my spare key to take my car back. (I couldn’t drive; I was still healing). Ever since, he's been kind and showing attention. His wife is not a factor, my face is a little droopy, but I still look better than her. I know he loves me, but when I needed him he wasn't available. Does he love me or not? How do I make him care about me more? Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q4. I'm a married physics professor. I'm involved with a student; a slow, starry-eyed 19-year-old who worships me. I told her I was single; and that I allowed my sister and her son live with me until my sister gets back on her feet. (They are actually my wife and son). My wife had a meeting on campus and we left together. My little girlfriend saw us and was furious. When she approached I played it off..."Have we met? Are you in my class?" She stormed off. The next day, she confronted me, and I looked confused. I explained that we live in a parallel universe and in THIS universe we're a couple. I explained that she must have caught my OTHER self, who was out with his family, because in THAT universe, I'm with that other person. I gave her more info on alternate universes; I thought she understood. I came home from work to find my girlfriend and my wife fighting in the front yard. And then they attacked me. My girlfriend was arrested and her father has threatened to get me fired. I want to keep my marriage intact, but my wife isn't interested in giving me another chance. What do I do? #SBCCHAT
Q3. I bred my ex every time I went back “for closure.” Told her I was fixed (I lied and told her that I had a vasectomy.) She just had a baby three weeks ago. I knew she was seeing other people, so I denied the baby was mine. She hit me with a court order to get a DNA test, but I’m married now and I can’t be saddled down with her mess. Is there a service that could help me beat the DNA test? I know science isn’t perfect. I need to find the loophole…any suggestions? I feel like a whole clown right now. #SBCCHAT
Q1. I moved in with my girlfriend a few weeks ago. She converted her teen son's room into an art studio for me and that lil n1gga is pissed about it. He's slamming doors and being disrespectful. I ignore him cuz he's 14 and he's nothing to me. Recently, I had a small 0rgy while my girl was at work and her son was at school. I had two females over and we were chilling when police kicked in the door and we were forced to come outside with our hands up--and mostly naked. The woman next door sent the Ring footage and pics to my girl before I could explain what happened. The house was swatted; one of the girls was 17 (under age) so I was arrested. I know my girlfriend’s son sent the SWAT team to the house, but I can't prove it. My girlfriend was a real one and I'm trying to get back with her, but she's not returning my calls. How do I get her son to respect my name, and put in a good word with his mom for me? I hate to lose a good woman like that. Please help. #SBCCHAT
The older I get the more I realize that I’ll never have a perfect relationship. I just wanna be with somebody that chooses me everyday. Somebody committed to navigating and figuring it out with me. Loving me the same through up and downs, different peaks and every season 💯
Q5. We've been in a relationship for 2 years, she thinks she’s my main, but she ain’t. I ALWAYS wanted boundaries. She had her place and I had mine, and I wanted to keep it like that. Two months ago I lost his job and that's when I decided we should move in together, that is, I should live with her. She said no. Some B.S. about she got her place exactly how she wants it. I think she’s seeing other n!ggas and I told her make room for me or I’m OUT. She said, “Take care,” and she blocked me from everything. What did I miss? What TF is she on? #SBCCHAT
If I ask you to do something simple for me & your response is a grunt/sigh.
Forget it/Don’t bother
I got it! I’ll never ask you to do shit for me again.