Old but not dead. Youtuber and streamer @Kickstreaming. Turned my life completely around 2023 and started living.
♪ Hate heals, you should try it sometime ♪
Your life flips upside down when you realize that "who you are" is a program written by people who were also programmed, and unless you make the painful choice to rewrite that code, most of your thoughts and actions are not beneficial to your future, because they are not yours.
How to make the wrong decision:
Ask everyone for their opinion. Tell everyone what you’re going to do before you do it. Listen to everyone, especially those who don’t have the results you want in life.
There are infinite different ways to think about a situation. Meaning, if you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or anxious, you're probably thinking from a sub-optimal perspective and can't "see" a way to get yourself out.
Even worse, most people have a worldview so deeply conditioned into their minds from parents, schools, mainstream news, social media, and the rest that they can't even fathom changing their mind.
You become powerful when you realize that you're probably wrong about almost everything, and that most of your problems can be solved with a simple change in how you view the situation.
If you don’t choose your values, others will choose them for you.
If you don’t choose your beliefs, others will choose them for you.
If you don’t choose how to use your time, others will choose it for you.