I have a co-worker who never announces anything. You don’t know she applied for a promotion until she’s already in the new office. You don’t realize she bought her own place until she casually mentions “heading home to finish painting.” She doesn’t post milestones. Doesn’t crowdsource opinions. Doesn’t invite commentary.
I used to think she was secretive. That success was supposed to be shared loudly. That excitement needed an audience.
Now I see it differently.
She moves with intention. Quiet. Focused. Certain. Her plans are protected while they’re still fragile. Her joy isn’t diluted by outside noise. She lets things grow roots before she shows the world the bloom.
It isn’t secrecy. It’s discernment. It’s peace. It’s self-trust.
Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who build their lives softly, without applause, and let their results speak when they’re ready.
Tea. I used to think love was a feeling, truth is it’s more so a choice in my opinion. Feelings fade, life gets heavy but will we keep choosing each other? That was a major wake up call.
When Tasha Cobbs said “God will break you to position you, break you to promote you, and break you to put you in your right place. But when He breaks you He doesn't hurt you, when He breaks you He doesn't destroy you, He does it with GRACE!”🥹