I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
For someone to make an active decision to never speak to you again, and they deeply care/ love you that tells you A LOT. They’re aware they have to go through a grieving process over that decision to remove you and still pick that over having you in their life??? Speaks volumes.