Since some of us lack basic etiquette.
Let me tell you. The money another person worked for or maybe you gift them be it parent, offspring or spouse
You have absolutely no right to tell anybody how they should spend it money. It's their money. Is that clear
the most helpful thing you can do for a postpartum mom is not offer to hold the newborn. it’s handle the home so she doesn’t have to think about it. she wants to be with her baby. give her that
there are people you’ve never met who are capable of loving you in ways the person you’re trying to go back to never could. don’t rob yourself of that possibility.