@no84f9e @m2macmini@NagyonAcc go to settings for safari
scroll down, there is a Tabs menu, where you can switch from compact layout to either top or bottom
@ShawtyBrothers also notice that "year 3000"
i feel like there is a real difference between a setting in the future like Gattaca and one in a completely different universe, like a tale
@AskYatharth also a huge part of attraction or product of it is this immense curiosity, avoidants kill that in me so easily
i close off to seek safety and any difference from what i am used to in term of personalities personalities is suddenly offputting
@AskYatharth yeah this is real
when i don't get that normal and expected feedback with avoidants my attraction fades quickly
sometimes i question if i ever really liked them in the first place, because i start to respond differently, i become irritated and tired of them
@Nexuist it turns out americans, despite everything, are still spiritually british and yearn to be grabbed by the balls in a proper 1984-epic-style to satisfy their perverse need of submission to authority
@simonsarris I have this problem, I always try to solve problems that don't exist yet, so I barely ever make any risky moves. I can't preemptively eliminate every possible point of failure and so I never feel secure or confident enough to act. Any advice to maybe direct me towards change?