@TweetATherapist The kid could just go play, that's why it hits different. Nobody listening to a podcast is watching someone do the thing they could be doing themselves. A kid watching kids is on the outside of the playground looking in. It's lonely. And it usually means something went wrong.
@chrislakin There's a canyon between someone who can navigate disagreement calmly and someone who bulldozes people under the banner of honesty. You're debating whether drinking is healthy without distinguishing water from vodka.
@chrislakin Be conflict-comfortable hits different when you're the CEO vs when you're the intern. The entire debate is people at different positions in power hierarchies universalizing their own experience.
@chrislakin Nobody in this thread will agree because you're arguing about three different things using one word. Boundary enforcement is necessary. Honest disagreement is healthy. Dominance negotiation is cancer.
Be comfortable with conflict... which one?
@Disstillmyname@jessicamalonso Java and JavaScript have nothing to do with each other. This is more like music and music theory, different things but related.
@Aella_Girl@Tekeee It's a signal you don't have your act together past a certain age and you will be judged by a significant % of the women you bring home
@cube_flipper 1) you observe boredom instead of reacting to it, which dissolves it. 2) the minimal task quiets mental chatter until you reach what's underneath. 3) the monotony resets your dopamine so subtle experiences feel rich again. the boredom is the point
@dthorson Yes. Curate RSS feeds from sources you trust. Return and store, feed all the stories into an LLM with your stated preferences and values so that it can do the filtering on items you care about. Return highest scoring items in the life domains that you care about.