I like calm men. Men who don’t shout or break things when they’re mad. Men who tell you exactly how they feel. Men who communicate. Men who talk you in a gentle, low voice telling you what made them mad or what you did wrong.
Hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. You gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. Life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going
SPOILING DOESN’T ALWAYS MEAN MONEY! It includes time, attention, cooked meals, being there emotionally, physically and mentally! Money comes and goes but how you make me feel is forever! 🫱🏽🫲🏾