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I am wonderfully made

[Motionz Samzy 🇳🇬 @samzy_yt]

Change him into your spec” sounds romantic until you realize you’re auditioning for the role of life coach.
You can communicate your needs, encourage growth, and decide what you can live with but you cannot remodel another adult into your ideal partner.
Sometimes the wisest move isn’t “change him” or “divorce him.” It’s simply: be honest about who he is, who you are, and whether the two of you actually fit.

[Talk2veee @talk2veee]

Two Women
Same Visibility/Opportunities

-One divorced her husband cos he was a stumbling block when fame came.
-The other elevated her husband,still married & has more kids.

-One has gone back to using bread as content
-The other is scaling new heights

Mumzee is that Girl!

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Where I work, we are told to call each other by our first names.

And you're not allowed to use "sir/ma".

Well, that's not how I was brought up, but it's where I earn money to feed my family.

To apply wisdom, I use "boss" for an older man or madam for an older woman.

Unless the person says otherwise.

And that otherwise for me, is only applicable within the work environment.

Outside of the office or work related matter, that person will be addressed exactly the way I was taught to address my elders.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I recall when I first told women to start kissing the penis of thier men and say "thank you, you were so sweet", many women found it weird.

Or perhaps they love the idea but were pretending about it.

I don show una one evidence now say e dey work like magic.

These things may seem funny or too raw, but many of you won't understand how doing such things place you in the eyes of your men.

Men love to be pampered in a kingly way.

There are times you'd have sex with your man, and after he cums, he would be very tired and even lazy to go to the bathroom to wash up.

Use that moment to pamper him.

Go to the bathroom to get tissue or wet towel to wipe his dick clean and kiss it.

"That was so good honey, I enjoyed every moment. The way you were hitting it, I didn't want you to stop. Thank you honey".

He'll feel pampered, masculine and appreciated.

Then he can doze off while you go take care of yourself in bathroom.

Then you go to bed to lie beside him.

When you guys wake up, dress the bed.

If you have drawn "map of Africa" on the sheet, change it.

The more you consciously do this, the more his love and affection for you grow.

And so would his commitment.

Do you know why?

Many young men have not experienced this type of treatment.

They mostly imagine it.

Make it a reality for them and they'd be happy and see you differently.

If you're cohabiting with your man or you're spending the weekend with him.

Once he goes to take his shower, bring out one of his washed boxers and singlet and place them strategically on the bed where he would see them.

If he returns home and drops his boxers on the floor or just randomly drops it, pick it up and wash them or place them in the laundry basket.

"How was your day today honey? Were you able to accomplish your tasks today? I made you a delicious egusi soup, please have your shower, let me go and serve your dinner".

Then you the man.

When you see a lady treating you this way, do not say in your mind that she's pretending so that you can marry her.

Question you should ask yourself is this:

"If my wife treats me this way, won't I be happy?"

When your girlfriend or fiancée serves you food, say "thank you" to her even if you were the one that gave her money to prepare the meal.

When having sex with her, compliment her body. If her toto is smelling good, compliment it as you're digging it.

"I love how your vagina smells and tastes, give it to me baby. I love fucking you my love"

Say those things.

It would boost her self confidence and feel appreciated and valued.

I didn't say that you should go and moaning ooo.

That's a feminine behavior.

If toto too sweet you, keep calm and enjoy it.

You groan, you don't moan.

Don't always feel like you're a man and feel too big or proud to compliment and appreciate your woman.

Then once in a while, dash her money.

Not because you're paying her for sex, but because women love money.

It's how you give her that matters, not what you give her.

Start practicing these things and thank me later.

End.

[DAI20 @dai20token]

After my previous post about cardiac health and awareness got more than 500K impressions across multiple reposts and quotes, many people on X reached out asking for foods to maintain good heart health.

Whether you're non-veg, veg, or vegan - your plate is either your medicine or your poison.

No fluff. Just the list. 🧵🫀

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[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

Fear loneliness more than you fear failure.

Without real connection, people slowly lose their spark. Emotionally first, then in spirit, and sometimes even in health.

Life is meant to be shared. Not hidden.

Step out. Let people see you. Your energy, your mind, your smile, your presence.

There are people out there waiting for you to show up and be part of their world.

🤷‍♂️

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

Your loyalty is to your spouse above all others.

Once you choose each other, that bond becomes your first priority. Not friends, not family, not outside opinions. Everyone else comes after the unity you’ve built.

It shows in the little things. How you speak about them when they’re not there. How you defend them when others cross a line. How you protect the privacy of your relationship.

This doesn’t mean you disrespect others.

It means you don’t let anyone come between what you and your partner are building. When both people hold that line, trust grows, and the marriage stands strong.

🤷‍♂️

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

To the many couples out there still fighting for their marriages, respect to you. You are choosing forgiveness over revenge, peace over endless arguments, and seeking help instead of walking away when things get hard.

That choice is not easy, but it shows strength, patience, and real commitment.

Keep going. Keep showing up for each other.

A strong marriage is built, not found, and what you are building is worth it.

🤷‍♂️

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

Being married is a beautiful thing.

Don’t let people talk you out of it because of their own bad experiences or fears. What they went through is theirs, not yours.

There’s something special about having one person who is your soulmate, your best friend, your lover, and your protector all in one.

Someone who knows you deeply, stands by you, and grows with you through every season.

It’s not always perfect, but when it’s right and both people are committed, there’s nothing like it.

🤷‍♂️

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

Despite what the world keeps pushing online and in real life, don’t buy the lie… good men and good women still exist.

Real love is still out there. Strong, happy, and healthy marriages are not dead.

I may not have had one in my first, but all my siblings are experiencing one, my parents still happily married after over 40 years, many of my friends are still enjoying their marriages. These are people close to me I can mention.

Yes, you will see more drama than peace. You will hear more bad stories than good ones. That’s because noise spreads faster than truth.

But behind the scenes, there are couples choosing each other every day. They forgive, they grow, they stay loyal, and they build something solid.

A good marriage is not luck. It is two people who are intentional. Two people who choose respect over ego, patience over anger, and commitment over feelings that come and go.

So don’t lose hope. Don’t let fear or past pain make you believe it’s all over. What is real still exists. You just have to be the kind of person that can build it and recognise it when you see it.

🤷‍♂️

[Talk2veee @talk2veee]

How to properly quench kitchen fire.
Many of us make this mistake.

[Incarnate @holyone11287]

@talk2veee My advice to any girl dt is 30+ and above.
1. Don't date any man dt is still building relationships around sex
2. Don't date any man who doesn't discuss about his tomorrow with you and doesn't want to include u in his plans
3. Don't date any man who is sex centered.

[John Wick @bond_00Seven]

As a young boy, I was a bad guy.

A very bad guy. Usually had five women rotating at every point in time.

I felt I had the manual on women and balled.

But none of what I knew prepared me for how to handle a woman after marriage and childbirth.

Things that worked when I was

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

When a woman feels happy, secure, and fully comfortable in a relationship, she often starts to think about something deeper and more permanent.

It’s not just about the good moments anymore, it becomes about stability, commitment, and building a future together.

At that point, marriage starts to come into her mind, not out of pressure, but because she now sees the relationship as something worth keeping long term.

She wants clarity, direction, and a sense that the love she feels is leading somewhere real.

🤷‍♂️

[Victoria Olamide👸😍❤️ @VikyInsights]

As a Wife, If a man flirts with you knowing you have a Husband, that is not a compliment. He is not seeing a great woman. He is seeing weak boundaries.

He is not thinking, "She is special." He is thinking, "She can be taken."
And the moment you entertain that attention, you are proving how easy it is to disrespect your Marriage.

A man who openly crosses that line does not respect your Husband, But worse than that he does not respect you either.👂🏿🤌🏿

[TaraBull @TaraBull]

Maternity video shoot with her man

[🏘️IamEri'Oluwa🇳🇬 @IamEriOluwa]

Avoid a partner who chooses anyone before you, there's no future.

[Dr Love Haroun❤️🩺 @Drweloveu]

Show me a lady of 21yrs of age that got married to a man of 59yrs of age some years back,and ever since she got married I have never for one day read about her in the news for one rumor or any scandal.

As young as she is despite been married to such a wealthy home of steeze and composure,she is able to maintain such big family,big business empire,step sons,step daughters, senior wives, extended and immediate families.

As young as she is,she is able to create loveable bonds between everyone in the family. She is able to upgrade herself educationally which she bags a doctorate degree.
Above all the way she pampers her husband is a top notch.

She is bless with lovely and beautiful children.
Show me that lady and I will show you Dr.Afolasade Rasaki Okoya!!!
A true definition of small girl with big sence✌️
Bless you ma'am 💕
@highlight

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

Your partner should not come second to your kids. Yes, I said it.

Your children are people you are raising for a season.

Your partner is the one you are meant to build life with.

Your kids will grow, find their own path, and move on.

But the man you kept putting last will still be there… or he may be there in body, but gone in heart.

If you don’t invest in that bond now, you will wake up one day and find there’s nothing left between you.

🤷‍♂️

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

Dear woman,

There is nothing wrong with chasing your career. Go to work. Build your life. Make your money. Grow. You have every right to do that.

But don’t forget your home.

Life is about balance. If everything you have is outside, your home will slowly become empty. Not empty of things, but empty of care, attention, and peace.

Your home needs you too.

It’s in the small things. Checking in. Listening. Being present. Creating warmth. Making your partner and your family feel seen. These things matter more than money in the long run.

No one is saying you should drop your dreams. No. Go hard. Be successful.

But don’t win outside and lose inside your own house.

Because at the end of the day, work will replace you in a week. Your home cannot.

So build both. Not one at the cost of the other.

🤷‍♂️