I hate it sooooooooo much when people say “unemali ne” cause
1. It never comes from a good place
2. Anginayo, im just a reckless spender and being broke has never killed me so God forbid i like having a good time.
So i just say “yes, nginayo” and dead the chat.
I want to be so comfortable financially that gifting my loved ones becomes second nature.
“You passed”
Dinner’s on me.
“You bought a car?”
Let me buy you fuel
Gifting my loved ones would honestly make me so happy.
The fact that this Polygamyst thing didn’t trigger a single childhood trauma is such a blessing. Reading people’s takes and I just realized I owe my dad even more respect. He was and still continues being a good father and husband to my mom ❤️
Ppl do be asking why you not in a relationship like it’s a drivers license or something ..man you know how many things have to align for a relationship to happen lol
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
I was born for romantic love, Sunday funday, quality time, lying on the chest of the person I love, spending time with my loved ones, little gestures, feeling deeply, all of it.