Foreplay starts outside the bedroom and before the clothes come off. It’s in the eye contact, the flirting, the banter, the laughing together, the teasing, the texts, the little touches throughout the day.
I respect motherhood deeply but when I imagine it for myself it feels like stepping off a cliff. It feels less like a milestone and more like disappearing into a life I might not recognise. And nothing I’ve seen or read makes me feel different.
@gomomoratele_ It’s everything that leads up to sex itself to increase the desire for each other, starting from the dirty talking, touching, kissing then even going onto oral sex (sometimes from both partners).
And you’re telling me that can’t easily lead up to 20 minutes?