"Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go." - Oscar Wilde
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Oscar Wilde was an Irish poet, playwright, and novelist who became one of the most popular and influential dramatists of late Victorian London, famed for his sparkling wit and epigrams. A leading figure in the Aestheticism movement, he is best known for his only novel, The Picture of Dorian Gray (1890), and the comic masterpiece The Importance of Being Earnest (1895). (1854-1900)
Your time is coming. Samuel is on the way. You keep pursuing God, doing things His way, and His blessings will chase you down. What you couldn’t make happen will come to you. You didn’t have to strain, manipulate, force. It’s going to fall into your hands.
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It says in Hebrews, “Those who have believed enter into rest.” It’s okay to leave it alone. You don’t have to make it happen in your own efforts. Give yourself permission to rest. Give yourself permission to not worry, not strive. You’ve done your part. Now take your hands off. It’s not going to happen just by your might, by your power, by your intellect. It’s going to be the hand of God.
Luke Falk shared a Mike Leach story that stopped me cold:
Two kids. One rich. One poor.
Every training camp, Coach Leach told his team about these 2 kids.
The rich kid has two choices.
Get soft. Get entitled. Expect everything handed to him because he was handed more.
Or take the resources, the coaching, the opportunities, and compound them into something greater.
The poor kid has two choices too.
Say nobody gave him anything. Blame the world. Make his circumstances the reason he never became what he could have been.
Or outwork everyone in the room.
Luke said the locker room had both. Kids from wealth. Kids from nothing. Kids with every advantage. Kids who scraped for every inch.
Same choice for all of them.
Ownership or victimhood.
Fuel or excuse.
The rich kid can waste the head start or build on it.
The poor kid can drown in the deficit or weaponize it.
Greatness doesn't come from where you start.
It comes from which kid you choose to feed.
Credit to @coachlukefalk for continuing to share golden nuggets about Coach’s legacy
In Navy SEAL training, students who failed daily had to do two extra hours of punishment.
They called it “circus.”
Those students should have burned out first.
Instead, they got stronger than everyone else.
Admiral McRaven spent 20 minutes explaining the 10 lessons SEAL training taught him:
Lesson 1: Make your bed.
Every morning, the first thing instructors inspected was your bed. Corners square. Covers tight. Pillow centered.
"It seemed ridiculous at the time. We were aspiring to be real warriors."
"But if you make your bed every morning, you will have accomplished the first task of the day. It will encourage you to do another task, and another, and another."
"And if by chance you have a miserable day, you will come home to a bed that is made. That you made."
Lesson 2: Find someone to help you paddle.
Students were broken into boat crews. Seven men paddling through 8 to 10 foot surf.
"Every paddle must be synchronized. Everyone must exert equal effort or the boat will be dumped back on the beach."
"You can't change the world alone."
Lesson 3: Measure a person by the size of their heart, not their flippers.
The best boat crew was "the munchkin crew." No one over five-foot-five.
"They out-paddled, out-ran, and out-swam all the other boat crews."
"The big men would make fun of the tiny little flippers the munchkins put on their tiny little feet. But these little guys always had the last laugh."
"SEAL training was a great equalizer. Nothing mattered but your will to succeed."
Lesson 4: Get over being a sugar cookie.
Several times a week, uniform inspections. Hat perfectly starched. Belt buckle shiny.
"No matter how much effort you put in, it wasn't good enough. The instructors would find something wrong."
Fail the inspection, you ran into the surf. Then rolled in sand until covered head to toe. "Sugar cookie."
"Many students couldn't accept that all their efforts were in vain. Those students didn't make it through training."
"Sometimes no matter how well you prepare or perform, you still end up as a sugar cookie. It's just the way life is sometimes."
Lesson 5: Don't be afraid of the circus.
Fail to meet standards, your name went on a list. End of day: "circus." Two hours of extra calisthenics designed to break you.
"No one wanted a circus. More fatigue meant the following day would be more difficult."
"But everyone made the circus list. And an interesting thing happened. Over time, those students got stronger and stronger."
"Life is filled with circuses. You will fail often. It will test you to your very core."
Lesson 6: Sometimes you have to slide down the obstacle head first.
The obstacle course record had stood for years. Seemed unbeatable.
Until one student went down the slide for life head first. Mounted the top of the rope instead of swinging underneath.
"Dangerous. Seemingly foolish. Fraught with risk."
"Instead of several minutes, it took him half that time. He broke the record."
Lesson 7: Don't back down from the sharks.
The waters off San Clemente are breeding grounds for great white sharks. Night swims were mandatory.
"If a shark begins to circle your position, stand your ground. Do not swim away. Do not act afraid."
"If the shark darts towards you, summon all your strength and punch him in the snout. He will turn and swim away."
"There are a lot of sharks in the world."
Lesson 8: Be your very best in the darkest moments.
Underwater ship attacks. Divers swim over two miles to the target. As you approach, the steel structure blocks all light.
"The keel is the darkest part of the ship. You cannot see your hand in front of your face. The noise is deafening. You can easily become disoriented."
"At the darkest moment of the mission is when you must be calm. When all your inner strength must be brought to bear."
Lesson 9: Start singing when you're up to your neck in mud.
Hell Week. Six days of no sleep. Constant harassment.
His class was ordered into the mud flats. "The mud consumed each man until there was nothing visible but our heads."
Eight hours until sunrise. Instructors said five men could quit and everyone could leave.
"Then one voice began to echo through the night. Terribly out of tune. Sung with great enthusiasm."
"One voice became two. Two became three. Before long everyone was singing."
"Somehow the mud seemed warmer, the wind a little tamer, and the dawn not so far away."
"If I have learned anything, it is the power of hope. One person can change the world by giving people hope."
Lesson 10: Don't ever, ever ring the bell.
A brass bell hangs in the center of the compound.
"All you have to do to quit is ring the bell."
"Ring the bell and you no longer have to wake up at 5 o'clock. No longer have to do the freezing cold swims. No longer have to endure the hardships."
"Don't ever, ever ring the bell."
This 20 minute speech will teach you more about discipline, resilience, and hope than every self-help book combined.
Bookmark & give it 20 minutes today, no matter what.
Sometimes we’re letting our mind work against us. We wake up dwelling on the negative, what’s not going to work out. Before long, there’s another thing to be depressed about. That negative will continue until you put a stop to it. You can spiral into doubt, or you can spiral into faith. You can spiral into worry, or you can spiral into peace.
“Some of the great leaders in history were not adored, but respected. My advice to leaders - stop trying to please everyone and do what you believe is best.”
―Nick Saban #TheLeadersMind 🏆
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When you go through a disappointment, you could be upset and bitter, but when you overflow with hope, you know that what was meant for harm God is turning to your advantage. Weeping may endure for a night, but you know joy is coming.
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