Village-born. Ex–Wall Street lawyer.
Escaped poverty, control, hierarchy, and billable hour.
I study power: money, women, relationships, freedom. INTJ.
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Dear Daughter,
Pain signals that something’s wrong, so people avoid anything that might trigger it:
Deep relationships risk loss → avoid closeness.
Ambition risks failure → avoid striving.
Caring invites anxiety → care about nothing.
In trying to escape pain, they end up avoiding life itself.
But pain is part of life—it’s proof you’re alive.
Don’t fear it. Learn from it.
Dear Daughter,
In a fight, the calmer person controls the situation. Whoever loses her temper loses the fight.
There's a good reason "lose your temper" start with "lose."
@AimeSenda 1. The algorithm only cares how long you stay on the platform, not how truethful or valuable the posts are.
2. I think we tend to believe what we want to believe.
The key is to check the facts and logic, not just the opinions.
What do you think?
Dear Daughter, love is not a fairy tale, but a fragile, fleeting emotion.
Happiness is not a permanent state, but a rare, fleeting glimpse of something we can never hold onto.
Dear Daughter, weekend dose of Chinese culture.
If Chinese people say: you are pretty. It means you are ordinary looking.
If Chinese people say: She doesn't look like someone you'd trust. Congratulations. You are gorgeous.
Dear Daughter:
Broke but want to look expensive? Wear black. It forgives cheap material, slims your silhouette, and spotlights your face. No cash? No problem. Black = instant elegance.
Dear Daughter:
Revenge is a confession that you’re still hurting.
Whoever injured you is either weaker or stronger:
If weaker → Ignore him
If stronger → Spare yourself
Let it go.