I know Twitter doesn’t give successful marriages like these nearly enough attention, but I’ll continue to share more of these videos. We deserve to see more examples of love, commitment, and healthy marriages on our timelines.
I was busy yesterday when I saw this tweet/video and couldn’t speak my mind, but now I will.
Why do people think they are not worthy of many things just because they haven’t attained a certain financial status?
You cannot have a girlfriend if you haven’t made a certain amount of money, you cannot have an opinion if you haven’t “made it,” you cannot have a tattoo because you are not rich, you cannot pierce your ear if you are a footballer not yet playing in “Europe.” You literally cannot enjoy things that don’t cost money you can’t afford, simply because you are waiting to get money you don’t need for them.
You want a 200m car before you can get a tattoo even though you already have a 50m car. Do you need the 200m car as your tattoo artist, or are you drawing the tattoo on the 200m car?
This concept of waiting to have money before doing things is why many shallow, low self-esteem, money-worshipping, unwise people think I shouldn’t have a voice. “You have not made it, so you shouldn’t have a voice or opinion.” What if I don’t make it on time or don’t make it at all? Should I remain voiceless? Never.
If I want a tattoo today, I will get it, and it will be beautiful because I have the body for it. I won’t care that shallow people project their own inability to enjoy such things onto me just because I haven’t “made it” yet.
In the end, people who delay enjoying things they want that aren’t tied to money—simply because they lack money they don’t need for it—are depriving themselves of the goodness of the moment.
Money is a tool and amplifier, but live and enjoy life in the moment. Tomorrow is not promised.
Everybody you meet for this life go only play their destined role and sign out.
You owe yourself everything...
Anybody when help you or come through for you … just understand say it is destined that you will get help from that person at that particular time and hour.
Who no help you right now no mean say that person no go fit come through for you later on, na the battles when you dey fight with your demons you know, everybody dey fight their own too...
So no too reason am and create unnecessary enemies or burn bridges... Na life.
Just filter people when genuinely love you and get you for mind and no let your emotions misjudge them.
We all have our dedicated time, dedicated hour to be favored by people destined to be reachable to us when we need help or when we need them. Life na time and season.
Na why giving up is equal to you playing yourself...
Because naturally life suppose sup for you, na just for you to stay vigilant and ready for your destined and dedicated time and hour when life suppose soft for you.
Life na continuous try your luck situation, na why dem say when there is life, there is hope.
Life na “by force school... we must learn & experience everything we need for our survival. We must learn pain, we must learn heartbreak, we must learn disappointment, we must experience evil and we must experience good.
You go hurt people when go naked swear for you, same way people go play you wetin no good.
No be by hard work, na by understanding how the universe operates.
If you no position yourself, your bus go leave you go, but the good thing na say another bus go come again, and if you Dey lucky, e go come in 24-48 hrs… if you still Dey lucky, e go come in 1 or 2 years time.
Anytime e come, na your time, dem no dey catch late comer for airport.
The only time when nothing concern you and luck na make your bus Dey road Dey come make death first your bus reach your bus stop. Na hin be labor in vain.
But as long as air dey comot through your nose and enter your nose, your duty na to continue to throw your dice in every direction.
Double 6 moment dey everybody pathway... Na your determination be your best friend.
So... #FireUp.
Choose your battles wisely... No use your stupidity or f00lishness delay your progress.
Destiny is certain, wetin must reach our hand go reach our hand, we can only delay it by our choices or actions. Reason we need to be careful with everything and everyone.
You fit vex me for road, but how you approach am and make me feel fit change our story for life.
Success na by wisdom, no be by superman vibe.