TRANSFORMASI RUMAH KAMPUNG—
Azizi Anuar dan isterinya berkongsi pada Mei 2021 hasil makeover rumah kampung papan milik mereka sekeluarga yang berjaya diberi nafas baru, sesuai dengan cita rasa kontemporari orang muda.
“First time try deco. Rumah kampung je,” tulisnya.
PART I
Siapa Housemate Dari Neraka Sebenarnya?
People love to say, “What happens in my room is my business.” But in a shared house, that’s not really true. Dirt and mess don’t stay in one room. They affect everyone.
TETAPI.
Ha ada “tetapi”.
At the same time, Islam is very clear about privacy and dignity. Allah says: “Do not spy on one another.” (Quran 49:12).
Exposing someone’s private space online, even to shame them into change, crosses a moral line.
FULL STOP.
Islam asks for balance. Take responsibility, but protect dignity. Advise with wisdom, not humiliation. “Serulah kepada jalan Tuhanmu dengan hikmah dan pelajaran yang baik dan bantahlah mereka dengan cara yang baik.” (Quran 16:125).
Kebersihan penting.
Belas ihsan pun penting.
Have you ever considered that someone who looks polished and put-together in public but lives very differently at home might actually be struggling with a mental health issue?
Orang “sihat” tak akan kencing berak dalam Tupperware, sis.
Cuba you fikir.
Those aren’t normal habits.
They’re warning signs of someone who needs support and professional help, not public shaming. Posting someone’s private breakdown online doesn’t make you responsible. It just makes their crisis louder and lonelier.
Be kind.
Settle it offline.
RE: IPAR TOKSIK
Someone I know once let her 20-year-old sister-in-law take her young son out for a Sunday trip. She didn’t want to at first, biasalah mak rasa tak sedap hati kan, but after being persuaded, she agreed.
Then, an accident happened.
Rupa-rupanya ada plot twist.
SIL tak bagitahu sesiapa pun yang dia ajak boyfriend dia join sekali outing dengan anak buah, kononnya “nak prektis jadi papa mama”.
He was driving her car when it crashed. She and her boyfriend were badly hurt, but they survived. The kid was killed.
The mother was completely devastated and stopped speaking to her SIL. That was 15 years ago, and they still don’t talk. Kalau ada kenduri-kendara sebelah suami, dia memang tak join sebab tak boleh tengok muka orang yang “betrayed her trust”.
Kamu faham tak Seripah?
IN A NUTSHELL
1. Respect boundaries. A “no” is a “no”.
2. In-laws are family, but they’re still strangers married to your sibling.
3. Your nephews and nieces are not your experiments.
dan laaast sekali tapi paling penting…
4. Parents have rules for a reason. No sugar, no iPads, no bad words, no junk food. Don’t ignore them just because you’re alone with the kids.
Dan bak kata my mom,
Ada mak yang tak suka orang marah-marah anak dia walaupun nakal. Kalau dia sendiri yang marah tak apa.
An ’80s Bangsar Gem — Peaceful, and Probably Haunted
This is how it was advertised:
A low-rise 1980s Bangsar studio with a quiet, slightly haunting calm. Asking price: RM495,000.
-Fully residential
-657 sq ft
-1 bedroom, 1 bathroom
-1 + 1 car parks
-Low density, only 112 units
A quietly charming Bangsar Indah condo with full-on 1980s Sharifah Aini–Noor Kumalasari energy. Yes, it’s ageing. Yes, it has a hilltop view and a Bangsar postcode. At that point, the pontianak and pocong can stay.
Doa masuk rumah baharu:
Bismillahi walajna, wa bismillahi kharajna, wa ‘ala Allahi rabbina tawakkalna.
Maksudnya:
Dengan nama Allah kami masuk, dengan nama Allah kami keluar, dan hanya kepada Allah, Tuhan kami, kami bertawakal.
DISCLAIMER: This Twitter post is intended purely as a playful commentary. It in no way belittles the original poster’s work as a real estate agent, nor does it claim that the apartment in Bangsar is haunted.
Kredit TikTok: Taufiq / taufiq.155
alignment isn’t luck. it’s clarity. It’s knowing when to walk away, when to wait, and when to show up fully. i pray for that kind of positioning where opportunities don’t feel chased, and relationships don’t feel negotiated
1. ADUN Duyong Datuk Mohd Noor Helmy Abdul Halem, 45, memperkenalkan 2,000 keping nota fantasi edisi terhad sempena Tahun Baharu Cina yang menjadi simbol keharmonian dan perpaduan masyarakat pelbagai kaum di Melaka.
“Terima kasih YB. We will vote for you,” komen Daniel Poh Li.
2. Helmy berkata beliau turut membuat bidaan bagi nombor siri istimewa YB8888888 yang berjaya diperoleh pada harga RM4,000 menerusi platform Facebook, dan hasil itu akan disumbang kepada Rumah Villa Harapan untuk tujuan kebajikan.
3. Sebelum kemenangan Helmy pada 2021, kerusi DUN Duyong pernah disandang oleh:
2018-2021 Damian Yeo Shen Li / DAP
2016-2018 Goh Leong San / Bebas
2013-2016 Goh Leong San / DAP
2004-2013 Gan Tian Loo / MCA
1995-2004 Gan Boon Leong / MCA
4. Lanskap politik Duyong yang sebelum ini merupakan kubu kuat MCA berubah setelah ia menjadi kawasan majoriti Melayu:
2013
50% Melayu
44% Cina
2021
61% Melayu
35% Cina
Sumber: DOSM
Selain kemesraannya, Helmy disenangi penduduk setempat kerana disifatkan “rajin bekerja”.