@daninolia @cafecubano_ 'Trans men are still just men' ignoring that a lot of trans men ALSO don't realise they're trans for a significant portion of their early life so were socialised as women (not blaming anyone but society there.) + non passing trans men r still subject to misogyny sooo....
@cafecubano_ I actually think it proves the point that they can't 'always tell.' Just bc u have internalised transphobia (and can't take a joke) doesn't mean everyone does
@kalikkoenn Well lowkey they're probably right then. Like it sucks but at the end of the day these aren't 'people' like we are, they're medical professionals. It's easier just to keep your head down instead of fighting it because they're not gonna listen anyway soo
unpopular opinion:
abandoning your friend who's in an abusive relationship because you need to "protect your energy" is incredibly selfish and EXACTLY what the abuser relies on.
@CiblesGD You can only be helped if you actually want help. Be open and receptive to what you're being told- I don't mean this in bad faith, but if six therapists have 'quit,' maybe it's less about them.