A hill I’m willing to die on is that…
Anyone who loves you wouldn’t cheat on you.
Love isn’t just a feeling it’s respect, it’s discipline its choosing you over temptation. If someone betrays you, it wasn’t love, it was convenience, weakness, and selfishness.
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal, it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.