Ladies, warm him up by #fingering his butthole with a lubed-up finger. Let him get used to the sensation of you being inside him. Slowly work up to 2 (or 3) fingers if and when he feels comfortable. You donโt need to move your fingers too much โ let him get used to the stretch.๐
Make sure he knows itโs a no-judgment zone. Youโre having #strapon#sex with him. There should be zero judgment. If he knows that youโre not sitting there thinking badly of him for liking it or making certain sounds, heโll be able to relax more and heโll have a much better time๐