In polygamy, the man is the only one who benefits, otherwise Children from polygamous marriages most times are not happy. Buana nilikua nimezoea kuishi soft huko Nakuru then shule ikifungwa tunapelekwa kwa co-wife huko Olenguruoni. Buana Ilikua mateso bin kifo, we survived on plums & taped water with my siblings most of the times.
The trauma is still fresh such that nikiona plums kwa streets huwa na skia kupiga nduru. Do you know how bad it is for some to hate plums. Buana mateso Ilikua hatari, we even apologized on behalf of our short mother.
Polygamy only works where a man keeps each family a secret & away from one another. Hapo kwa Khalwale boma smart isiwadanganye, kwa ground wamama hupigana cold wars namna hatari. Women can never coexist especially where wealth is involved. Chesaa!!!