@yourlocalshuck i dont think pathologising those who are acting in complete accordance with dominant social messaging is good. thats a societal diagnosis. its not ocd necessarily.
โtrans womanโ probably describes at least a dozen different internal gender identities (even before unpacking the broader category of โtransfemโ) and i am far more interested in understanding how different people approach it than litigating who has the most legitimate claim to it