If I'm going to be honest, because women are selfish, and they always make the relationship all about them and money.
Right now the men are tired and are starting to love and value themselves, so instead of investing in a one sided relationship, they invest in something better.
There are a lot of dudes out here undiagnosed putting their entire families and communities through hell.
This is amazing that they are publicly discussing this, how to spot/manage it and more. He has an incredible wife. A true gift.
Men are simple creatures — they’ll tell you what they want, show you what they like, and mean exactly what they say. The confusion usually starts when you try to read between lines that don’t exist.
As a single mother I am saying this:
Men have a sense of balance when it comes to providing routine and discipline but also support, encouragement, and show unwavering dedication to their children. Men also tend to lead with more logic than emotion while still allowing room for their children to feel and express emotions. They also tend to be able to separate their trauma they’re healing from their responsibilities as a father.
A lot of women (not all but a large majority) don’t know how to balance all of these things on top of not allowing their emotions get the better of them. A lot of women also are jealous of their children, harbor spoken or unspoken resentment toward them for a broken home, or refuse to break the cycle of trauma in some capacity. Hell, some women with a partner struggle with this as well but it can become more apparent when single.
Look at his wife tho, she not on niggas boats she not in niggas sections, she not drinking other niggas liq, smoking with other niggas. And she be dressed, she not walking round in lingerie acting like it’s an outfit.