Young men looking for a wife to marry, let me teach you how to do a bit of filtering from a womanโs perspective;
1. She bills you first or second week of talking, BLOCK
2. She has no job or business, BLOCK
3. You ask her on a date and she wants you to buy her a dress or pay for her hair, BLOCK
4. You ask her, โso where do you see yourself in the next 1yrโ and she replies with โI donโt know o,โ BLOCK
5. Her money is her money, your money is our money, BLOCK
6. Always buying new expensive things without a clear source of income, BLOCK
7. You buy her a gift on her birthday but you didnโt get a gift on yours? BLOCK
8. Always asking you for money, BLOCK
9. Only you do the calling, she doesnโt call you, BLOCK
10. She doesnโt want kids, BLOCK.
Never let money take the front seat in your approach to her.
If money can buy her affection, someone richer will take her away from you.
Be generous, not a simp.
A woman liking you is one of the easiest things to tell.
A woman ready for marriage is the second easiest thing to tell.
Reshared ๐
This statement may appear to be true, but it lacks one fundamental flaw.
Any man, irrespective of his financial status, has no business trying to win a woman. A man who is focused on his purpose shouldn't have time to convince a woman to be in his life.
A man's purpose should be greater than his romantic relationship. Any attempt to win a woman's affection compromises a man's value.
There's nothing special about women that is worth chasing.
Men, stop putting women on a pedestal.
Dear Igbos, we are very sorry for taking so long to understand the suffering you went through and for damaging your reputation the way we did.
I just discovered, after watching a BBC documentary, that Nigerians were the ones to blame for the Biafra war, not the Igbos.
Before now, while researching the world top 20 tyrants, I was surprised to find Gowon the man who fought the Igbos on the list. It still shocks me that about 3 million innocent Igbos lost their lives.
I apologize on behalf of all Hausas around the world.
~Ibrahim Gamji
When you think youโve arrived as a journalist and then boom you interviewed Mazi Nnamdi Kanu and discovered that you are a very big m0r0n who doesnโt know anything
Brown envelope journalist receiving lecture from MNK
@bluewmist At night when you look at the darkness, speak. Literally use your mouth and listen to what your mind brings back. Consciously choose one of the voices, name it, and call to it when you feel lost. This is one of the oldest human practices modernity has stolen from us and it works.
We clearly don't need you, we all know this APC strategy to share the votes so they can successfully rig the election. We have suffered enough with killing everywhere and economic hardship. I respect you GEJ but you're a coward who fled when we needed you to stand your ground.
1. Always assume your woman is for the streets until she proves otherwise.
2. Never ask twice, she heard you the first time.
3. "Busy" is a myth. Never fall for "I'm busy."
4. If she controls the sex, she controls the relationship.
5. If you have to tell another man that your woman is your woman, then she hasn't made it clear enough. Let her go.
6. Always believe in yourself the same way you believed she slept for 14 hours.
7. Never let her breadcrumb you. That's dangerous.
8. Everything a woman does is intentional. Don't be fooled.
9. If you give her a crown, she'll treat you like a clown.
10. Always stay 100 steps ahead of her so when she fucks up, you'll be like, "lol" and move on.
11. Hide your emotions at all costs so all your manliness is not yet lost.
12. Never fall for "He's just a friend." He's never just a friend, but waiting for the right time to spread her butt cheeks. I, Yemi, know what I did when I was "just a friend".
13. Young women are like water, they take the shape of the vessel. Become the right vessel, and she'll pour herself into you.
14. Men chase championships. Women chase champions. Never close your options, because whether married or in a relationship, women never close their options.
15. Every girl has two boyfriends. The one she's fooling, and the one who is fooling her. Choose the position you want to be in.
16. Stop negotiating with emotional women. Every time you bend to keep her calm, you sell a piece of your authority. Strong men don't explain their worth, they embody it.
17. There are millions of her, but only one of you. Don't cage yourself with a scarcity mindset.
18. Stop emotional investing in recreational women. You can't fix what's designed to entertain.
19. The man who makes her earn affection has her mind. But the man who gives it away loses both her and himself.
20. "Real love" are just two English words, stop paying too much attention.
The game is sold, not told. Understand the game, stay rational, and act accordingly.
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Stay focused on you and your daily bread. ๐ฐ