Ancient Greece literally had an androgynous god that was a god of intersex and androgyny but conservatives will still try to convince you that gender identity is a modern day invention caused by the woke mind virus.
Let yourself be proud of weird little wins. Like drinking water before coffee. Like not texting someone who made your soul feel small. Like folding the laundry even though it sat there for three business days. Your life doesn’t need to be impressive to be worth celebrating. Let the small things count too.