People who love themselves, have the strongest cut off game known to man because they truly enjoy their own company. They trust their intuition. They don't tolerate or make excuses for weird behavior because they don't need to. They just move on. Happily, without expectation.
One thing nobody tells you about adulthood is how fun it is to become your own person. One day you randomly start liking jazz, olive green, expensive dark chocolate, documentaries about volcanoes, weird lamps, sparkling water, books about loneliness in Tokyo, silver jewelry and quiet cafés. Your personality keeps unfolding forever if you let it.