@Jeffrey__Rimmer @ScottMGreer Yes but you see it a white vs black culture. Which is why I’m not sure if we agree.
E.g. Nigerian culture vs AA culture or Russian culture vs British culture.
They both handle conflict differently yet they’re both black or white.
@Jeffrey__Rimmer @JohnnyNoblebody Tbh I don’t think there’s one way all black middle class people act. I know that I’m very calm and hate arguments. Another may be a bit more combative. To say this is culture and not just a personality type sounds like a cop out to me.
@Jeffrey__Rimmer @JohnnyNoblebody It’s because a lot of black men are very feminine and compensate with hypermasculinity because of the lack of fathers in the home. They also see a certain agenda so already assume the worst.