Y’all don’t know how bad y’all really be breaking people, when you force them to give up on you and they REALLY LOVED YOU, that means at some point in time you crossed a line that made me have to sit down in tears & really EVALUATE, really PRAY, really sit in silence,
Reality is some people just don’t align & this was my last year letting my empathy for people keep me attached to what my discernment already rejected.
and if love ever finds me again, i hope it's with someone who thinks about how their actions affect me,someone who considers my feelings before making choices and values my peace as much as their own because I'm not here to survive love again, I'm here to finally live it
Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
a man gonna treat you exactly how he feels about you. A man that wants you fr ain't leaving no space and opportunity for you to think anything else. i promise
Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me