Ima tell you men right now, if a woman needs you to constantly cough up money and buy shit , you either dating a bum or you fucking with a woman who doesn’t like you . You’re paying to possibly get attention from her which is loser activity
Your entire life will change when you prioritize reciprocity. Stop supporting those who don't support you. Stop being there for those who are never there for you. Stop sacrificing your needs to maintain a one-sided relationship. Start pouring into cups that pour back into yours.
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’re actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, and a safer life exists. Let it happen.