Families tend to cater to the most dysfunctional person in order to keep the peace... But the only person's peace they're keeping is the one causing the problems.
Pope Leo XIV talks about pro-life individuals:
“Someone who says ‘I’m against abortion but says I am in favor of the death penalty’ is not really pro-life. Someone who says that ‘I’m against abortion, but I’m in agreement with the inhuman treatment of immigrants in the US,’ I don’t know if that’s pro-life.”