Eddie Murphy recalls his favorite memory on the ‘Dreamgirls’ set with Beyoncé and Jennifer Hudson:
“[Hudson] was ashy, and she was licking her fingers and getting the ash, and Beyoncé grabbed her and said, ‘Ooh girl, don’t do that, I’ll get you some cream.’”
I highly recommend the “Let them” method. You accept people as they are, even if their actions/opinions differ from what you might want/expect. You stop trying to manage or control external factors & instead concentrate on what you can control: your own reactions & choices.