a girl on tiktok said “if you wanted me to speak more highly of you then perhaps you should have treated me better...you don't get to narrate MY story of MY experiences with you". felt that.
i always claim to be independent, but deep inside it melts me when someone does something for me without being asked. it’s a reminder that being independent doesn’t mean being on your own all the time
date sweet men. men who are calm. men who can articulate themselves. men who are soft spoken. men who are patient with you. men who respect both you and themselves . men who are kind to you. men that are gentle. men who have self control.