Why do guys on here think that they will abuse women and she will IGNORE or TOLERATE it.
She is not your mother or sister who is habituated to your abuse
And icing on cake will be a police complain
Women are reciprocative, be kind get kindness,
Be treacherous, get same back
You prestige lies in your own hands, some people do not get Newton’s third law !
Sharing this with some hesitation because there is a bit of personal pain behind this.
When my mother gave birth to me, it was an assisted delivery with a forceps involved. Gods know what went wrong but I ended up with a deformed right shoulder. My right hand was limp and awkwardly twisted over.
Over the first two years with human efforts (medical) and prayers as well as Divine intervention, the deformity reduced but functionality was limited. It is still limited. A good doctor advised my mother to train me as a left hander and she did. Always thankful to him for that intervention because training my left hand for critical fine motor skill activities helped me not lag behind academically.
Yes there are times though very rare where I do feel the fatigue of making do with 1.5 hands than two. There were times when my family got extremely worried whether I can "manage life ahead". And there were times when husband and in laws didnt let me cut veggies because they feared the awkward angle I hold the knife when wielding with left hand.
But brighter side remains that I never knew what it is to have a fully functional right hand so I dont exactly know what I am missing. So I am managing more than find I guess. Small blessings!
And there was a time when I was still a child and asked my mother about C Section vs normal birth. There was real pain in her face and voice when she said had they gone for C section during my birth, I would not have been mishandled and I would not have had this disability.
I know there is a section of medical fraternity that may be pushing C Sections for commercial purposes. But let that not guide the whole judgment on the medical process. Child birth is a huge milestone in life. So listen to the Doctors for once!
Doctor here. This is bullshit.
But I’ll tell you, a bad sperm causes morning sickness, preeclampsia(high bp), increase risk of miscarriage, premature delivery, anomalies.
So a normal pregnancy is a result of a father’s unseen efforts🥹
Say what you want but this experience confirmed it : harassment doesn’t care how you look, what you wear or what race you are. NO woman exaggerates what she went through. It’s time the shame switched sides.
You want the young officer to sacrifice his life for the love of the Nation, but you don’t want him to express his love for his fiancée.
In the Army we say ‘Youngster nahi karega, toh kaun karega’.
If you can not find a fault in his professional capabilities, don’t do this nuktachini for such a pure gesture of love and belonging.
Military equipment has been on display during many ‘Know your Army’ exhibitions around the country. The students and non military personnel have clicked pics with it showing pride and love for the Army. So, please don’t bring in the national security angle into this.
Let the young soldier do his national duty with pride and honour 👍
Jai Hind 🇮🇳
Men complain women have unrealistic standards while wanting a girl that looks like a model, personality of a mother and the needs of a homeless person.
Your country has many countrymen.
Your religion has many followers.
Your culture has many ambassadors.
Your language has many speakers.
You have only one life.
Prioritize it.
Above all else.
Nobody ever imagined that the Padma Awards would become the most surreal way to honour overlooked communities. When you recognise the best among them, entire clans feel the emotion of pride and respect.
This is Modi häčk the EVMs!
If MRAs viewed crimes against women with same kind of sensitivity as they view crimes against men, they would have garnered a lot more support for the movement. If you make people like Giribala Singh a martyr & justify dowry or reduce the event to whataboutery match, you will lose support for a very valid issue that people dont speak of- crimes against men.
Men call women sluts with zero evidence, but need a full FBI investigation before believing a man is a rapist.
That’s misogyny.
One rumor can destroy a woman’s reputation.
But a woman’s testimony about assault is never “enough.”
A man accusing a woman is treated like truth.
A woman accusing a man is treated like a lie until proven otherwise.