Getting "misgendered" (correctly gendered) at work is a weird experience, because if any coworkers hear it they immediately crucify the person who said it. "erm, actually HE'S a MAN." and it kills any euphoria I got from it.
is it normal to work nonstop for years and years and then when you finally get to a stable and safe point in your life the cumulative burnout catches up and oneshots you and you become unable to do anything for months on end