There is something some of you do that is very disturbing.
Because you have a cleaner that comes around twice a week, you eat food and you stash the plate for days till the cleaner comes around. You don't clean up your personal space till the cleaner comes around. Your bed is always unmade and you house dirty till the cleaner comes. Why do you need someone else to wash your underwear if you are not actually mad?
This thing is just common sense and hygiene. Wash your plates immediately after eating. Clean up your kitchen always. Flush your toilets properly and keep it clean. Keep your house in order, you're the one living in it. When your cleaner comes, she can do general cleaning. You don't have to be a pig just because you're paying someone to clean. I also have a cleaner but my house is always neat and organized. I am the one living in it.
You need to do better. Money will not fix the values you don't have.
CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT, As I turn 43 this year, I have realised, as a man, no one cares about you. Not your wife. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your workmates. Nobody. People act like they care, but deep down, they don't. You are on your own. Always on your own.
You know Kenneth Okonkwo worked with PO in 2022-2023 season as Spokesman and also acting as somewhat an adviser then..
When they asked Peter Obi where he got his advice from. He said he got his advice from a mad man. It was Kenneth he was referring to.
THE MORE YOU EXPLAIN YOURSELF, THE CHEAPER YOU LOOK.🔥💪🏾
Confidence doesn’t come with a caption.
When you’re solid in your decisions, you don’t need anyone to understand them. You move. You act. You let the results speak.
But the moment you start sending that long message breaking down why you did what you did, you’ve already lost. You’re not clarifying. You’re begging for approval.
Over-explanation is insecurity wearing a suit.
A man who walks away from a bad deal in silence looks powerful. The same man who walks away and then writes three paragraphs about it looks shaky. The words didn’t add value but they exposed doubt.
Your actions should be coherent enough to stand alone. If they’re not, more words won’t fix that. Better decisions will.
Learn to let things land without a disclaimer.
Silence, used with intention, hits harder than any explanation ever will.
Be guided 👏
Nobody is coming to save you. Build the thing. Send the email. Start the business. Make the move. The waiting room is full of talented people who never left.