The biggest skill you can develop is the ability to reset fast. Bad conversation? Move on. Bad day? Start fresh tomorrow. Missed workout? Hit it the next day. Poor decision? Learn and adjust. You can’t control what happens to you, but you control how long you let it affect you.
These broke men got a PhD in turning their poverty into emotional blackmail. You approach a girl fully aware your account is on life support, then get mad when she expects you to act like a man with means? Classic move: hit her with love-bombing and “baby I’m trying” tears the second the bill comes. If money’s an issue, stay single and build. Or date women who romanticize struggle love. But nah, you target the ones who want trips, dinners, designer shit, then weaponize your broke-ness to guilt-trip and gaslight.
Hold your mama and daddy accountable for that broke cycle, not the girl who said she wants better. Your pops should’ve grinded or your mom should’ve upgraded her baby daddy. Stop making me the villain for having standards.
one thing about tables, baby… they always turn. don’t think you can plant chaos in someone else’s life and rest easy. what you create comes back dressed as your reality. karma doesn’t miss… it remembers.
He's not cheating,
but there's no flowers, no surprises, no appreciation posts, no sweet messages, no dates (unless you practically beg for them). the truth is laziness CAN slowly kill love. sometimes simply being loyal just isn't enough.
for someone to make an active decision to never speak to you again, and they deeply care/ love you that tells you A LOT. they're aware they have to go through a grieving process over that decision to remove you and still pick that over having you in their life??? speaks volumes.
I wanna marry into a funcional family... when they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and bday parties...I wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in law & go shopping with their siblings. I don't want it to be just "US" I want a family that's oriented.