anytime i've mentioned this i get c/s women telling me "but my mom didn't teach me those things either!" and like that sucks, but you don't have the same exposed weak point that glows red when you miss these skill checks the way we do lol
Like you cannot just go 'but what if v-coding happened to trans men too' without a single shred of evidence to suggest it other than 'i feel bad when we are not about me'
Last month I was in a plane and a boomer who was across the isle from me had an embroidery hoop that she was working on fall out of her bag and I handed it to her and said it was really nice and she and her husband look at me like I stabbed her.