Kim

Living life in a constant state of awe and wonder

[Kim @TshidiK101]

@AxxessInternet Logged a ticket on Monday for a router that won’t switch on. Still zero help 5 days later. This is really poor service delivery.

[Kristy Tillman @KristyT]

People who are paying rent are paying for 24/7 use, I don't know what else to tell you.

[𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖒𝖎 @thamieverywhere]

bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.

but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.

[Urenna @BridgetUrenna]

I’m a materialistic woman. I like the nicest things, and I want to be able to afford whatever I want at any time without flinching. ‘I want it, I get it.’

[Wow, He’s Tsonga! @_aboihasnoname]

When the chemistry teacher said "old bonds break when new ones are formed" we didn't listen. 😭

[elle carnitine 🍉 @elle_carnitine]

I’ve known my wife for 14 years and I don’t think I’ve ever had to forgive her for anything. You don’t have to settle for partners who hurt you over and over

[MOTASE @TheRealMotase]

As a woman, you should fear being stuck and unsuccessful more than being unmarried.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

Mine is sitting on a toilet and a hidden snake attacks my v@gina but okay.

[ᢉ𐭩𑣲 @bnswaaa]

Grace

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

We heard Nandi loud and clear. Her point was that Black men deserve grace because the system crushes them hardest: no money, no government support, 400 years of stacked odds, and constant pressure to succeed.

Our point is this: that same system hits Black women just as hard, often harder. Patriarchy. Single motherhood. Unpaid care work. Higher poverty rates. Sky high GBV risks but when women survive those exact conditions through informal hustles or sex work just to feed their families, they are shamed. Insulted. Called slurs. Told they have no dignity.

So men deserve grace for trying, but women are humiliated for trying to survive? You cannot demand grace from women while denying it to them in the same breath. That is selective empathy.

Grace is not a one way demand from women to men. It has to be mutual. Otherwise it is just another burden placed on the group that is already carrying the most.

[Helen of Troy @manzimalanga]

Mina bandla respectfully, I’m not saying they don’t have it hard, I’m just saying there’s no need to feel sorry for men

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

The only grace they’re getting is Mondlana 🙏🏽

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

“Give grace to black men”

Black men:

[kena le wife appeal @thatoivan_]

the benchmark for black manhood in south africa is “trying”
all that black men have to do is try and the will be showered with grace.

black women have to be understanding, forgiving, patient, kind, graceful, perfect.

[Cas 2.0🤭💕 @cas_Reloaded]

“I love cooking” words that can never come out of my mouth

[Chioma @Merchimaaa]

I see where you’re coming from, but I can also see that you’re an idiot for coming from there

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

They’re waiting for the girls to graduate then give them grace

[Kim @TshidiK101]

@Milla__K 🤣

[Kim @TshidiK101]

@Prezain_LJ

[A.VICTOR @Lifeof_AG01]

The one who lacks integrity and self respect.