Tunde Adeniyi

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@r_soyeon @itsdardan @destinyzee 🤣 he deserved it

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@teefehbaby @_Ojonya You were mean. Empathy would’ve gone a long way in that conversation. Laughing and asking if she’s aware of the text was unnecessary. You could’ve been kinder.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

Infidelity is such an interesting concept, you’re cheating on someone you chose to be with…like no one forced you to be with this person…it was a conscious decision you made to be with this person and now you are cheating on them.

[Jade Osiberu @jadeosiberu]

I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.

Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.

If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@itsdardan @destinyzee Even your response is dumb. Talkin about, “Test out intelligence of a whole continent off one response”. That’s the comeback you use? Disappointing. Basing all that unfounded accusation off a picture is stupid, says more about who you are and how you think than the pic itself. 😒

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@Favour_Q I’m glad she got him fired. Other story lines would’ve made her forgive him. I’m all for revenge or karma

[Lola Okunrin @lollypeezle]

It wasn’t hearsay, we saw the video. He was licking the young girl’s fingers and forcing his body on her.

He was convicted and sentenced, not just suspected. The judge saw him as someone to be sent to prison and off he went.

This is who they are giving chieftaincy title. Shocking

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@itsdardan @destinyzee My guy shut up

[Chioma Genia @eugeeyy]

@Molayoo_ I'm sorry but this is why you should never condone cheating no matter what.. just imagine contracting 3 strong diseases

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@Steven1659436 @lauren_w67 Tell that to the people who lived through it. It is this kind of statement that actually diminishes these struggles. No one is saying the world is all bad but don’t be in denial that the world isn’t as divided. It is. There’s more bad than good and it is sad.

[Àshàké(not Ololade)❤️ @Molayoo_]

One babe said she lowkey wants Tinubu to win the next election, so that a dollar will be 3k because she works remotely and earns in dollar.

Another babe replied, “With this brain? You’re lucky o”😭😭😭

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@yabaleftonline Sadly, the lawmakers are the politicians

[YabaLeftOnline @yabaleftonline]

“Lawmakers need to make it mandatory that the children of politicians do school here.” — Akah Nnani

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@LeadHerLogic I’m interested please dm.

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@fairyprxncess Chocolate

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@muheediva01 🤣

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@the_insane_men You would be surprised that a lot of men want this

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@zillionokoye Please send link

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@didem5654 110

[Tunde Adeniyi @TundeAdesec]

@AMENARTPOP Bad Romance