Ngong Mayen

| Certified Public Accountant | KASNEB | USQ |Griffith University |

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Coronation Day 🏆💪 @Arsenal

[Arsenal @Arsenal]

In all its glory 🏆

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

@Safaricom_Care I can't place/receive calls or sms on my safaricom line. Says calls are barred. I'm currently in South Sudan. Please help.

[Alan Kasujja @kasujja]

I have no idea who wrote this.. but every man should read it.

The Lonely End of a Good Man

He started early. Graduated top of his class.
PhD before his peers even finished their Masters.
A man of discipline no smoke, no drink, no scandals.
He chose one woman, married his best friend, stayed faithful.
He raised four brilliant children, sent them all abroad on merit.
Gave them everything he never had.
They now live good lives in foreign lands married, thriving, far away.

He is now over 70. A professor. A man respected in academic circles, but forgotten in the quiet corners of his own home.
Today, he stands in his kitchen, cooking matooke alone.

His wife the woman he built everything with left for a routine visit to help their daughter with childbirth.

That was three years ago.
She never came back, claiming, she wants to get her residency or green card.

Now she belongs to the children.
She FaceTimes him on birthdays and sends love in group chats, but her heart no longer lives here.
He has become a bachelor again by abandonment, not by choice.

This is the lonely end of a good man.

A man who did everything right.
Who never cheated.
Who never strayed.
Who lived by the book.
Who believed love and duty were enough.

And yet, here he is.

Alone.

Heartbroken.

Still in love with a woman who forgot to come home.

And this is not just his story this is the silent fate of many “good men.”

Now the hard questions must be asked:

If he was a polygamist, would one wife have stayed?

If he mingled with friends, built strong social networks, joined the staff club, would it have made the silence less deafening?

If he had a side chick someone who also cared would he feel less invisible now?

If he lived a little less for others and a little more for himself, would this end still look the same?

This is not a call to abandon virtue, but a call to reexamine balance.
Because loyalty is beautiful, but loneliness is brutal.
And love, when it is not mutual in old age, becomes a slow heartbreak no medicine can cure.

To the men reading this;
how do we escape ending up like this?

What structures, relationships, and self-preservation must we build today to ensure we’re not cooking matooke alone at 75, asking where everybody went?

Because being good is not enough.

Not anymore.

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

@Nyakueka_bar Long may it continue 🤣

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

While you’re busy celebrating Independence Day, MTN South Sudan quietly slides this in…
#SneakyMove #SouthSudan #SSOX

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

House for rent.
2 spacious bedrooms + living room + veranda + JEDCO power.
Gudele 1 Block 6 near Upper Nile University.
DM for more info.
#SouthSudan #SSOX #SSOT

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

@Lobiyn_Achien Couldn’t agree more.

[𝕊𝕡𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕣 𝕻𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕤 @SprinterPress]

Macron said that Paris should strengthen its friendship with Burkina Faso's Captain Ibrahim Traore and convince him to allow the creation of French military bases in his country. In turn, Burkina Faso's leader Traore noted that France is already friends with the United States, Great Britain, Brazil, and Canada, but for some reason they do not want to create bases there.

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Many folks will flock to X in #SouthSudan but the “for you” section is the catch. #SSOX

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

@deng_forbez @Arsenal Lack of options upfront I suppose.

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

There is no way South Sudan has the lowest telecom tariffs in the EAC region! The part about 1, 2 or 3 hours is spot on 👌
#SSOX #SouthSudan

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Perpetual extensions;
Destitution extended;
Millions disenfranchised;
Social contract nonexistent;
Total darkness at the end of the tunnel.
#SSOX

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

@Nyakueka_bar And @UNFPA has no shame to brag about this!

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

True 💯

[Adémọ́lá. @OgbeniDemola]

Knowledge is not a gift, it is a burden. The more you know, the more angry you become at the world.

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Double @Arsenal defense is the new gold in @OfficialFPL
@dau_atem
@Daikuei
@akmajok

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Played my double @Arsenal defence ✌️

[Fantasy Premier League @OfficialFPL]

Who benched their defensive assets for #MCIARS? 🫣

#FPL

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

[Ngong Mayen @Tuombuk]

Arsenal #SouthSudan annual parade!
@arsenal
@premierleague